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been married for month and..?
Been married for a month....and at times when we argue, its all because he either doesnt listen to what i say or he will call me names...( people that i dont like)......Tonight in the middle of the most stupid argument he ended up calling me a ***** and i definetly dont tolerate this....
Ive been been with for 4 1/2 yrs and as always th first 2 yrs evrything is perfect...from both sides everyone is nice and perfect....He now doesnt respect my way of thinking, etc..... Would u accept ur husband calling u a *****?
8 Answers
- JohnnyLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
No. He crossed the line there and owes you an apology. The best thing you can do when you see a senseless argument coming is to leave the situation. Return once you can discuss things more calmly and reasonably. Co-existing really isn't that hard.
- JuneLv 61 decade ago
No its not acceptable to call your partner insulting names.
Your just got married and are feeling the waters. You both need to stop arguing about stupid things.
If he doesn't listen to you then ignore him .
Don't push all your ways of thinking on him.
Do what you do and let him do what he does .
Why is it you know want him to think like you. You were going with him for 4 years don't you think you should have known all his faults by now. Nothing is perfect so move on in your marriage and stop trying to change your partner.
- LadyGreenEyesLv 61 decade ago
This isn't grounds for divorce, but it is something that needs addressed. Talk this over, and suggest counseling. Many churches offer it at affordable rates.
Look at the root issues, too. ALL marriages have problems; the trick is working them out, and respecting each other. That goes both ways. Keep your cool, try and see how you can get through these problems, and hang in there.
Source(s): 18+ years of marriage. - ?Lv 51 decade ago
If only married one month you can get it annulled. But i'd say marriage is abuot working together and understanding why the other does what they do. Communication. Sometimes ones significant other can act irrational for decent reasons, except you don't know what those reasons are. Then you cannot fix it, maybe he is emotionally unsure about something.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
my step-dad and mother are going through the same thing ATM. I would suggest, maybe some marrige counseling, or a little break, not "seperation" but a break to think, maybe not even leaving the house, just, maybe sleeping in sepearte rooms, just eating together, and simple things. hope everything works out.
pray & trust God.
he helps everything get better.
- ?Lv 51 decade ago
No i would never except that cause then you are saying to him its ok to do that verbal abuse u and he will get worse so stop it now before it gets bad.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
No way ! kick him out, or tell him your leaving
