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I can't stop worrying about age and getting married?

I am now 32 going to 33 yrs.i have had bad relationships and heart broken.i would have liked to get married and have kids.i constantly worry about age and wether i will be able to have kinds at a normal age ever.So these things worry me.sometimes i loose sleep over it.or i woke up in the middle of the night as if some one shook me up to think about this issues.what do i do?

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  • Jam Z
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    :( there is no easy fix as I guess this is something you want really badly. I suppose you can try and up your chances of meeting the right guy and also filling your mind with some other stuff by taking on some new activities that you enjoy and keeping yourself occupied. it's hard to take risks on new guys too as you risk your heart everytime, but you're going to have to...

    Also remember that a lot of women don't have their first kid until their 40s nowadays so there is still quite a bit of time.. it only takes that chance meeting of the right guy and in two years you could be married with two kids so things can change fast!

    Best of luck to you. I hope you get what you want :)

  • I39
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I had my first baby at age 37. It is not a problem to start a family later in life. Just take your time and find the right guy. You will screw up your life if you get yourself into a bad relationship, have kids, then here you are old, raising babies, and don't have the support you need. Do not just have kids because you desperately want them. Get a good guy first. Maybe some counseling would help you w/ the anxiety about the situation.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    there are people over 40 they act irresponsible like a bunch of teenagers

    so there is not a specific correct age to get married

    what it matter more is how mature the couple are.!!!

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