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Sex still hurts after having it 6-8 times?

Me & my boyfriend have had sex about 6-8 times and it still hurts me. Sometimes it'll go away but it's really not bringing me any pleasure. Just pain. What can I do to stop this? Or is this normal?

Update:

It's not that i dont get wet enough, there's pain on the inside of me when he goes deep

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  • 1 decade ago

    It is not normal to have pain during sex (except the first couple times), pain inside when he goes deep may mean that there is a yeast infection starting to build up, he is hitting your cervix, there is a tear in your vagina or other reasons. Whatever the reason, it is important to get it checked out by a doctor so they can find the cause, treat it effectively and make it possible for you to enjoy sex. Never be afraid to speak to a doctor about it- you can request a female doctor and yes they'll give you the "speech" about safe sex- just endure the talk, nod and smile, then go an do it anyway.

    as for what someone else said - NEVER use Vaseline as a lubricant- it WILL break the condom and cause many problems for you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dump him and date me?

    Alright, sorry for the troll answer..

    Real Answer: He's obviously thrusting too deep and it hitting your cervix. That hurts a lot of girls. He needs to not go in so deep or you need to change positions. Doing it doggy style will lengthen your vagina and he's not as apt to hit your cervix when he thrusts deep. You being on top is even better because you can control how deep he goes. Try it and see what happens.

    Source(s): Personal experience
  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    He may be too large for your vaginal canal, you may have an STD, or it could be an allergic reaction. A doctor would be able to help you in figuring this out very easily.

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to relax, and he needs to perform much more foreplay! Take your time and don't rush through it and don't worry, it will get better.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hes too big for you. Find a guy with a baby dick.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Use vaseline as lubricant.

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