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Why are guys not interested in me?
I'm nineteen, and I've never been asked out on a date *ever*. I'm not girly and I'm admittedly fat, but I've known girls worse at those qualities than be who are now engaged. Before you ask, it's not for lack of trying. I have asked two guys out and given one my number. They've all turned me down. I don't think I have any more first moves left in me. What am I doing wrong?
Edit: I don't want to start dressing up every day and things like that because somehow I feel that that would be misleading the guy. If he starts dating me because I always wear cute clothes and stuff, he'
s going to be disappointed when he finds out that that is not who I really am.
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Don't try to be someone you're not. It's all about waiting. Time will come. My dad didn't get married 'till he was like, 35, because it took him so long to find the right girl.
When it comes to true love, it really just happens. You can't push it and try to make it happen faster. The right guy will come; he wouldn't care about your appearance because he will know you and love you for who you really are.
On the other hand, you can't go around wearing sweats all day and imagine someone to fall in love with you randomly. You do have to try to change up your appearance a little bit. Don't get all slutty, just get nicer clothes, wear more makeup, etc. YOU CAN HAVE THE PERSONALITY OF A NERD AND STILL LOOK GORGEOUS.
Good luck!
- 1 decade ago
be u..u will find the one who loves u back when its unexpected...never forget who you are in the first place though
