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Tips on how to not be shy?

So I tend to be a loud, typical person around my friends, and at home. But whenever I meet new people or talk to teachers, I get really shy and awkward and don't know what to say. So basically,

SHY

X Parents

X Friends

√ Teachers

√ New People

I get good grades, maintain a 4.0, but my teachers keep telling my parents I don't participate in class. My Social Studies teacher confronted me and told me that I shouldn't be afraid of answering questions in class, but I didn't have the guts to tell her that wasn't it. She said that I work better in small groups, but I really hate working with people in general, mostly because I like to keep my academic life and social life a little separated. Mostly I work better in small groups because the teacher isn't there and there is always a friend or two of mine in the group. Anyway, I don't raise my hand in class because I really just don't want to. I don't see why I should, the teachers know the answers anyway. And I know the answers 95% of the time.

Off the topic of teachers, and on to the topic of new people. I always get really shy when I meet new people. Kids my age. My parent's friends. Boys. Girls. Doesn't matter who. I never know what to say, and tend to try and stay away.

Anyway, thanks for listening to my problems, I could use all the tips you can give.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I am like that too! You just have to step out of your comfort bubble and try being more social. Like go up to someone new and introduce yourself or something. Just take little steps at a time and you will eventually be more social. Like I started out this year and I found that if I have a lot of energy then I will talk more. For example, I have P.E. right after lunch and on the first day I just talked to random people because I had so much energy! Just try somethings like that and you will eventually become more social. What also helps is that if you see someone that is sorta like you, then go talk to them and it will be easier because you can relate more to them! Hope this helped! :)

    Source(s): Meeee!!! :D
  • 1 decade ago

    OK

  • 1 decade ago

    i heard that people are shy because they think of them-self lower and others higher remember everyone is the same

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