okay re asking my question please help?

okay let me start from the beginning. I met *Jason back in March of this year well after first we were just friends and everything then we agreed to be friends with benefits. Well we were for a long time till i had to move to my dads due to my divorce and had to get a bunch of stuff straighten out. I moved back the beginning of December I had no place to stay. I couldn't stay at my moms due to problems with her and my brother. Anyways *Jason's mother said i could stay here and sleep on the couch till i got a job and saved enough for my own place. We agreed just friends nothing more i agreed due to i just left a bad relationship. After a couple of weeks being back he sat me down and talk to me and we agreed to be friends with benefits again but didn't sleep with each other that day due to me having to be at work in 5 minutes. I texted him the next day cause i work nights and everything asking him when i got home from work since i was getting off early if he wanted to go a few rounds. he texted me back saying he has been thinking about it and didn't think we should do it due to we will let our feelings get invovled. I agreed due to the bad relationship cause i wasnt ready for a serious relationship again well i was okay with us just being friends and took the advice of someone on here and started talking to another guy and have been talking to him for a while night and i really like him but almost every other time we talk on the phone *Jason comes into the living room grant im sleeping on the couch and it is his house i want to tell him leave the room but its his house and i dont want to be rude or nothing cause we been through a lot and i mean a lot during our short period of time of friendship. Anyways he sits there during my call waits till i get off and wants to stay up for hours talking. The more I talk with this one guy the weirder he gets, I maybe looking at it from a diffrent point of view due to my feelings and my involvement with him and everything so can you please help me i want to move on if he cant make up his mind cause its going to do nothing but hurt me in the end and so I mean why is he acting diffrent if we agreed we were friends and nothing else?