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Do women give men third chances at a relationship?

She broke up with me twice now within the year. Both was over the fact that I had a problem with communicating my feelings. Alot of the times I could communicate on things and express what I feel. But on things that emotionally compromised myself I just couldn't it.

After the 2nd break up I've realized it wasn't her that I needed to understand and that it was me I needed to understand about why I had a hard time expressing myself. Now I realize I trust her with my emotions. But at this moment she doesn't want to trust me because I've taken away that trust. Which I understand what ive done to hurt her. She feels that I never cared for her or how she felt about being open and honest and communicating. Which is far beyond what I know about how I felt. It was just poor communication on my part.

It's been 2 months ago, and I just got the rest of my stuff last weekend. But she didn't give back the engagement ring.IShtar I loaded up my stuff I was only going to tell i was sorry and to thank her for helping me load up my stuff. She ended up sitting outside with me and we chatted, mainly me, but she did listen. She could have said you're welcome and bye. But she didn't and her response seemed like she wanted me to respond. Told her I wouldn't promise to be everything she needed but I would give her my all. She responded with, oh really? And.. She said she never expected me to be everything but just be open with her. Later that evening her 7 year old daughter sent me a text asking why we wasn't getting married. I didn't read my cell until later when my ex text me with sorry that her daughter texted me while she was taking a nap. And proceeded to tell me that she was Aggrevated with me and Said that she was doing just fine until we chatted now it's got her to thinking and she said she didn't want that and she doesn't want to care.

Update:

So I tried to let her know what I can and can't do now. But she keep trying to find ways of denying her own feelings by negating small things that wasn't an issue before but by saying they are an issue now.

The next evening she texted me and asked me if I wanted the ring back cuz she forgot to give it to me. Kinda funny to me she had all my stuff ready to go but the ring.

Update 2:

The last thing i told her i wanted ber to know and i will prove this to her that i do care about her and i do love her and that i do appreciate her and respect. She asked how I was going to do that and I said I would do everything I said I would do. She just said you know this is ridiculous, right. I didn't say anything else.

Oh yeah since picking up my stuff I Havnt tried contacting her and when we did text those 2 evenings it was her texting me. I Havnt contacted her.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    It could just be that she is still processing that you're actually communicating to her now, and she is happy about that, while trying not to analyze why now. As in why that you are now opening up to her.

    That's why she still has the ring. Because she knows what she wants ( YOU ).

    She's just in an analyzing phase. Women analyze the most meaningless thing.

    Wait for her to tell you more about how she feels about you.

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