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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

So sad plz help 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER?

I have been seeing a guy for 6mths and i really like him i lost my virginity to him. I'm 24 he's 27. We were never classed as bf/gf to him, as he would always say we were 'seeing eachother' whatever that meant.

However the past few weeks he was distant ever since i asked him where i stood with him.

I noticed instead of staying over and being dropped at the bus stop the next day he would drive me home after sex(30min) drive i was unsure if it was nicer to stay over or be dropped home?

He said he didn't want to hurt me and he was right we are very different and not well suited i guess.

But he must have feelings for me, as he opens up to me about his past mummy issues(doesnt get along with her) and that he was feeling depressed lately.

When i went over to his place last night to have 'the talk' i knew we were ending it. but we ended up having sex. I am not very assertive and i didn't think it was a good idea but he goes 'one last time' and he always charms me. I feel like crying and nearly cried during it. I just miss him and want to be back with him.

He drove me home and before i got out of the car we hugged eachother for awhile and kissed.

I said 'hope you have a happy life and im glad we ended this on good terms' he goes ' Don't talk like that (in a sad voice)'

I hadn't heard from him in a week but briefly spoke to him online and he goes 'i'll see you but i don't know when cutie' I know i'm overanalyzing this but i always used to be sexy and ive down graded to cutie' and how can he not know when we can see eachother?

I don't want to keep bothering him. We had no contact for a week. What do you think he wants?

Do you think theres a chance i can win him back? How could i do this? He was my first type of relationship experience. The way we broke up, was that normal?

Advice plz!...........ahhh it's really depressing atm :(

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    It seems to me that he never took the relationship as serious as it should b. And the cutie situation could b bc he dosent want to sturr up any old feelings... I dnt think you should look for him as a b.f anymore i think he jus really needs a good friend at the moment and if he really cares about u he will realize it and come bac to you but u cant b pushy and obsessive i think he needs u as a friend and towards the end of the relationship it seemed that he cares for you and dosent want you to diappear in his life

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Sorry your going threw this. You your self say that your are 2 diverse people and under no circumstances meant for the different. stay with that concept bc you're properly. he's not waiting for a lengthy time period dedicated relationship. He took your virginity, and for the perfect 6 months made you a FWB fling. i comprehend he cares about you, yet no longer sufficient to make you his gf. once you delivered up the position you stand, that is totally customary after 6 months, he ran like slightly boy. he isn't any longer waiting. i might want to cut back off all ties with him. which will make a lot less complicated that you'll move on. You already reported you cant withstand him so in case you spot him, he receives sex out of you, yet your going to sense terrible in a while bc he's in simple terms utilizing you. ideal advice is stay away from him like the plague.

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