My girlfriend thinks I was planning to cheat but I wasn't!! :(?

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She thinks I was planning to cheat on her with her friend. I was not, I only wanted to be friends with her friend, and she wanted to back. This friend of hers did try and break us up, but it is in the past now. It was over facebook message, I said that we'd make sure nothing ever happened, but in a joky kinda way, and she found out about it. Now she thinks I was planning on it, but I don't know what she's going to do :(
I really really love her and I never want to lose her :(

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The don't be friend with the middle girl duhh that easy!

Cherry · Answer

HOw do you plan to cheat on someone? But I understand hy she is upset b/c of what her friend tried to do & now its like y'all want to be friends all of a sudden, but all you can really do is sit down & talk to  your girlfriend & tell the other girl if she wants to be friends with you she has to stop trying to break y'all up. 
Note: Be careful about the things you do or say on Fb....it will get you in trouble especially if your relationship is serious.

kailee_joe · Answer

Her trust was hurt, which is understandable. You need to reassure her that you are just a flirty kid. Sometimes you can get in trouble without even thinking you did something wrong. Maybe you didtn plan on cheating on her, but you were still testing the boundaries by flirting or whatever with her friend. own up to your mistakes and truly apologise, if she cant get past that then its her loss. But let her have time and space to think and restore trust.

ThatGurl · Answer

Yea you two messed up the chance to be "friendly" with each other. It would have been fine had that fb situation not happened, but since it did, you better decide whats more important. the middle girl or your girlfriend. I have the feeling that you'll make the right choice lol

Anonymous · Answer

Tell her the truth.. like this question you posted. It was your fault for having a jocular personality with her friend because I'm sure you wouldn't want your girlfriend joking around with one of your friends. 

Good Luck

sodamnfocused · Answer

when you love someone, you have to accept that some things are off limits....like her friends. don put yourself in the position to look suspicious. if this means you cant be friends with the same girl who tried to break you up in the first place.....then so be it. at least you still have the one you LOVE.

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Anonymous · Answer

Well if you dont want to loose her you better get you *** in gear and make it up to her! If i was her id be pretty pissed off..

Anonymous · Answer

give her a surprise and tell her all the stuff u said above.reassure her of ur affections.

RK · Answer

why the heck would you try to be friends w your girls friend whose like that is beyond me that would irriatate any girl

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