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Friendly email, then silence?

20 years ago I loved this guy and as he lived and worked overseas I couldn't be there with him. We wrote /visited for 5 or so years. It just became too hard and lonely for me as it seemed we would never be together, so I broke off contact.

I recently found some photos of his, work related, and managed to find a contact for him. I know that he is married with a child as am I. He straight away responded to my email and sounded pleased to hear from me and said he was looking forward to receiving my news.

I sent him off a chatty email, no mention of the past of course, and heard nothing more?

I am wondering if he didn't actually recognize my name and maybe thought I was some other woman? Maybe he still isn't sure who i am or maybe he doesn't have anything to say to me once he realised who i was?I wasn't expecting much in the way of a reply, maybe a bit of news about

himself as well as an answer to the question "do you want the photos back?" I think I should just throw out the photos.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    He might just be busy. I suggest giving him a week or so to reply and if he doesn't reply by then, throw out the pictures and move on with your life.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe this mans wife is getting a bit touchy, because seh knows about the past, and so he is having difficulty knowing whats the best thing to do? I don't know, its quite an extreme idea.

    Maybe because it has been so long, he is just struggling with how to chat to you, or maybe he just has not got round to doing it yet, or is putting it off.

    I reckon he does know who you are, its jsut memories of you have been brought to his mind and i suppose he needs a little time to think through them and then reply, he may be feeling a bit awkward?

    Leave some time before throwing the pictures out, he may want them.

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