I really need advice. I want him back 5 STARS BEST ANSWER!?

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I have been seeing a guy for 6mths and i really like him i lost my virginity to him. I'm 24 he's 27. We were never classed as bf/gf to him, as he would always say we were 'seeing eachother' whatever that meant.
However the past few weeks he was distant ever since i asked him where i stood with him. Why did everything change after i asked where i stood? ahhh big mistake. I was just making sure he wasn't seeing anyone else that's all.
He said he didn't want to hurt me and he was right we are very different and not well suited i guess.
But he must have feelings for me, as he opens up to me about his past mummy issues(doesnt get along with her) and that he was feeling depressed lately.
When i went over to his place last night to have 'the talk' i knew we were ending it. but we ended up having sex. I am not very assertive and i didn't think it was a good idea but he goes 'one last time' and he always charms me. I feel like crying and nearly cried during it. I just miss him and want to be back with him. 

He drove me home and before i got out of the car we hugged eachother for awhile and kissed.

I said 'hope you have a happy life and im glad we ended this on good terms' he goes ' Don't talk like that (in a sad voice)'
I hadn't heard from him in a week but briefly spoke to him online and he goes 'i'll see you but i don't know when cutie' I know i'm overanalyzing this but i always used to be sexy and ive down graded to cutie' and how can he not know when we can see eachother?
I don't want to keep bothering him. We had no contact for a week. What do you think he wants?
Do you think theres a chance i can win him back? How could i do this? He was my first type of relationship experience. The way we broke up, was that normal?
Advice plz!...........ahhh it's really depressing atm and it's driven me back to being bulimic :(

Me · Accepted Answer

I would say you can be friends with this guy, no sex, kissing, nothing more than a hug hello or good bye. He isn't serious, that is obvious, and all men will be willing to have sex with you and say what you want to hear to get it, if you allow it. If you are not capable, and it seems you are not , of having a friends with benefits relationship, then moving on is your best choice. I would advise you not to get into a physical relationship until you have been seeing the man for a while and he shows he truly caress for you, sounds old fashioned but that's why there is the saying "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free",  make  him earn you.

fincher · Answer

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Naguru · Answer

On the eleventh line of your narration, you say "I went over to his place last night to have 'the talk',. .......but we ended up...." .

Later you say "I hadn't heard from him in a week........".  These two are contradictory. Not matching with each other.

Then you need real advice. What do you mean by "real".

Anonymous · Answer

It looks like he's seeing someone else, but at the same time he don't want to hurt your feelings.

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