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Im uncomfortable around him?

i'm 14 and there's this boy in class who people say i have a crush on. He's my deskmate and we hardly talk so i doubt that we're even friends. My bestfriend said that she heard a classmate say that the only reason why we dont talk often is because i get shy infront of my crush, this is not the first time i've heard someone saying that i have a crush on him, its like the forth time, different friends ask me if i have a crush on him and when i say no, they start acting like its ok,i can tell them wen im ready.im sure he has heard the rumours too thats why we hardly talk, i feel real uncomfortable around him coz he thinks i have a crush on him, that may be the reason why he thinks that i want to sit closer to him, i feel real uncomfartable around him because he thinks i like him but i dont!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    This has happened to me before. So one day i decided to be brave and just come out and say, "I bet you have heard the rumors, but i just want you to know that it's not true. I don't like you in that way."

    he may say something he may not. but either way you got it out there and everything is cleared up.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Your 14 and since he's in your class I guess he's 14 too. at this age it's hard to tell, because you sexually awoken really recently and maybe you didn't yet (sexually awoken doesn't mean you are ready for it, it's simply mean you see a men as a potential partner instead as a person who pick his nose and fight all the time) and same for him.

    Only you can really know what you are feeling. Your friend are 14 too I guess? so they don't understand it better then you neither. If you have older friends (or family) 16+ they might find it cute to believe that you have a crush so they will see it that way.

    Maybe you are awakening and your body start to understand that he's a man so a potential partner and subconsciously you try to deal with that new point of view, but since your just 14 you don't know yet how to deal with that facts.

    There is 3 approaches to this. wait a years or 2 to see how it will develop, or just confront him ask him and experiment. Or explain your feeling to your teacher and try to change place with someone else.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That's happened to me before. It turned out that he liked me and everyone knew it so my friends kept doing stuff like that to get me to like him back. It kind of depends on your situation..maybe you flirt and you don't even know you're doing it? If you want, you could maybe try to be friends with him so you are more comfortable around him and he isn't such a stranger (since you're stuck sitting next to him). To fix the friend problem you could maybe tell your friends about a guy you actually do like. Maybe they'll stop buggin ya about it? Hope that helps :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm 14 too so I know it can be kinda confusing. I think you should just ignore people and talk to him and tell him that you seriously do not have a crush on him.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Okay I think ive had an issue like this in middle school, im in 12th grade now, but yea I think you should just begin to talk to him like theres no feelings for him. like one day ask him what answer he got for one of your questions..and ask did he hear about something thats going on. just come off as a friend

    Source(s): 17 year old knowledge
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    aww that sucks. if you wanna be friends with him, you could try to talk to him and be friends. or you can try explaining the situation to him. it must be hard with your friends thinking you like him, but just be firm and tell them that you don't like him except as a friend. it is important to be true to your feelings, if you have a crush on him that'ss ok. if youdon'ttthat'ss also okay. if you wanna be friends with him or you don't they're both okay.

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