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Why do all hot people have no personality?

It never surprises me that every hot girl or guy I meet has zero personality.

They all have this "poise" - a quiet snobbery about them.

The only reliable traits are they are:

stuck up

self-centered

unfaithful

non-commital/run away from human warmth

and they're NOT:

warm/kind/caring

generous/interested in others

enthusiastic(unless it's about themselves)

In fact, the only time any enthusiasm comes out is when they're drunk or stoned.

Do they think they're such a catch that they make/expect the other person to make the first move and all the moves?

Do they ever feel lonely?

Do they ever NOT get people interested in them or sex?

What is your experience with hot people?

Very curious to find out!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Not true!

    youre generalizing

    my boyfriend is hot and hes amazingly cool, cute and funny.

    stay cool :]

  • 1 decade ago

    IMO people are all messed up in some way. Some people are messed up on the outside (bad clothes, greasy hair, dirty nails, etc) but they're desirable on the inside. Maybe they're still confident, funny, etc.

    With hot people I think sometimes it's a compensation for feeling inadequate. Maybe they think that if they look great all the time people will be less likely to notice that they're sad, or lonely, or self conscious, or stupid. Maybe they're trying to build their outside up the way they want the inside to feel.

    The lack of enthusiasm, lackadaisical attitude, "quiet snobbery", and general cold attitude could be due to the fact that they don't appreciate themselves. It's hard to appreciate other people if you can't appreciate yourself.

    But some hot people that come off as jerks really think too highly of themselves and suck at life. Others I think deserve a little empathy.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would definitely describe my "poise" as "quiet snobbery." Nice observational skills.

    But I'm NOT unfaithful or noncommittal. I'm not really warm/kind/caring, interested in others, or enthusiastic (unless it's about myself and/or I'm drunk/stoned) either.

    And I do expect others to make the first move (but it's because I'm kinda shy).

    I often feel lonely.

    I try to get people interested in me or sex (with me).

    But, in addition to being attractive, I'm also very intelligent. And I DO have a decent personality...it's just an "acquired taste" sort of thing.

    Source(s): In all honesty, most people like this are pretty insecure. I'm pretty insecure. I'm afraid that people who meet me think that I'm stupid because I'm good-looking. But I don't want to act like a nerd (because that's not socially desirable), so I just compensate by "acting hot."
  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I don't call myself "hot," but I think I'm far from "ugly" & I love my personality. Sure, I have some people who tell me I'm hot, and I have some people who tell me I'm hideous. Some love my personality, others think I'm a self centered, uninteresting, pessimistic, raging *****.

    Some people click & some people don't, you can't really guess how someone will be purely by whether they're hot or not, especially since that itself is an opinion. Someone who is bland & lifeless in your opinion may be just what someone else is looking for so they don't feel that way. Or maybe to you they ARE stuck up, but to some others they aren't.

    I never change who I am, but I choose who I let see different levels of me, so some people think I'm a raging ***** all the time & super closed off..others have seen the side of me that would give up every thing for anyone else & think I'm *too* caring.

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  • Wasabi
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Uh, isn't it obvious?

    The pretty people don't need personalities.

    They get everything handed to them, and will have enough left over when they're old and gray. Looks fade, but it's not like life suddenly balances out just because they get old.

    Us uglies like to compensate for the good life the pretty people have by saying that their lives will suck in 20 years, when it's really not true. They'll be hooked up in their younger years. Ignorance is bliss, remember? They'll be just fine.

    Most hot people live generally higher-quality lives than we do.

    No, it does NOT pay off in the end for us. Learn and deal with it, complaining only makes us a touch uglier.

    We all have different hottie experiences. Most are jerks, some are cool.

    We as the average and homely have to try and be extraordinary people in order to level ourselves out with those who are naturally attractive; we have to build interests, skills, personalities, and a good soul. A lot of the times, pretty people will attempt to develop personality and yet their inner beings are ignored because their outer body is too much of a distraction to the world.

    Realize that jealousy and hatred often haunt the hotties, though. Even if a hottie is nice, they may be considered a 'b-tch' or a snob because of their looks. Same goes to the rich or otherwise gifted/privileged. Life isn't perfect for those who don't have to work hard, but in the end...it's one hell of a lot better than our normie lives.

    -pat, pat- Feel better?

  • 1 decade ago

    Lol not All of us, you just came across highschool, don't worry most of them will end up with no future, in a boring job, with a belly, 27 cats, hobo life, lol, so just don't worry about them, some pretty faces are empty hearts, disturbed minds, sometimes it's their fault, sometimes they are forced to b that way, sometimes they are imposed to be that way, some are scarred, some are just plain miserable cus faith has not smiled in their favor, some are jaded from heart ake, some people just want to see the world burn down in ashes cus they are so hurt, oh have you ever noticed that when someone is drunk they are defenseless, their safety for the night depends on a stranger wether good or bad. So every time you see someone like that, just be thankful to god that it's not you. I kno I am. Stay cool

    Source(s): Bad childhood, people say I'm a sweet heart :D
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It is not like all hot people are born this way. It is because the constant people drooling over them inflates their egos. It take a lot of self-control to fight it. I guess I would be considered a hot guy and yes I have done all of those things but I do try to be warmer and generous. It is so much easier to be like that though. I ask you don't judge us too harshly.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hell no, when I was in school I not only had a modeling contract, I had so much personality that I fit in no matter what clique I fit into. And sure I made enemies, they were the ones who felt life was a competition, and it really isn't. It doesn't have to be.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I feel most people are like that, but then again, that's just because I hate most people. I guess people who feel they are attractive just tend to rely on that to get them through life and they don't need to possess any type of personality at all, because people are ******* stupid enough to actually praise "hot" people, even though they lack a personality.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes because ugly people are absolutely fascinating.

    ...in a watching a slow motion car wreck kind of way.

    Honestly though, does it offend you so much the person you had in mind has no interest in you?

    I'm sorry it didn't work out, move on.

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