Is it wrong that i don't want to hang out with him since he doesn't own a car anymore?

It would be reasonable to decline to go somewhere on the bus when the weather was truly cold and miserable. But I think it would be wrong to completely stop "hanging out" together, if you're truly friends.

The reality is that women are more attracted to men who have some financial resources. Your friend can be forgiven for being temporarily stuck without a job and a car, but after a while many women would give up on a guy who doesn't seem to have the ability to make a living.

Don't get upset about all the nasty comments here. You're the one who knows all the factors involved, and it's your decision about how long to be patient with your friend.

Obviously, you don't value your friendship with him enough to take the bus once in a while to him. I wonder what he sees in you if you also don't have transportation? That just makes me think you used him for his convenience to get to you. Why don't you take the bus once, then he take the bus the next week, etc? If I had to take a bus to see my best friend once every week or two, I'd do it in a second because she's my best friend for a reason. Even a close friend I would do this for, and even a friend I wanna hang out with once in a while I will ride a bus for. Our friendship means something to me. Why doesn't his mean something to you, over and above a little, temporary transport issue.

And second...why don't YOU get a car? Why is it HIM that needs to have a car? Are you some feminine throwback to the 50's? If you have a job and he doesn't, you have no excuse - you can get a danged car loan.

I'm going to be honest. Yes, this sounds very wrong. How you've explained it is like this: "He cant drive me around anymore, I'll have to drive him, so I have no interest." It sounds like the "friendship" isn't very strong from your end. Friendship works like this: If one friend is in a bind, other friends help out as they can and don't expect any payment. With my friends, it's an unspoken rule (I guess one could call it such) that if one of us has to drive another around for a while, somehow gas money is provided to support said driving. But it sounds pretty shallow for you, just because he is out of a car right now and a job (like many of us are), that you suddenly don't want to hang out with him. You might want to consider stepping back and really evaluating the friendship.. seems something is missing.

So the "I am really good friends with this guy" line is just that, a line?

Tell him your real feelings and then let him go to find some real friends, not someone who is just using him for his car.

Take a horse dick and choke on it till you suffocate.You stupid whor'e, You have no clue of how shallow an retarded you are.Please do the world a big favour and jump under a train,or shoot yourself,or you can suffocate on a horse dick (as mentioned) That poor dude.I would only tell you to F*U*C*K YOURSELF,SUCK A BIG ONE,DIE IN PITTY and have a nice day. :) Stupid whor'e :-|

you are such a typical 21st century *****. it's not even about the emotional support the dude gives, it's all about how he can support you're stupid ******* needs. It is wrong you gold digging tramp. That guy should be glad you don't want to hang out with him anymore.

Where's your car? It sounds to me like you are just using him if it's inconvieniant to hang out with him anymore because he doesn't have a car.

Sounds like he is on the road to being a "LOSER"? (at this stage?) No car insurance?

yes

lets all point and laugh at how pathetic this stupid beatch is.