Im a 30 year old virgin male and my life sucks real bad?

It sounds to me like you have social phobia. This is a type of severe shyness that can be a pretty serious condition. If you're 30 years old and you haven't managed to make much progress with it, my recommendation is to seek counselling. There's no magic bullet, but the condition is definitely treatable and you can almost certainly get better after a while. Please don't be put off by the thought of going to counselling--it doesn't mean there's anything fundamentally wrong with you, just that there's an area where you could use some help. Meanwhile my own personal suggestion to you is that you might try asking out some women that you only find mildly attractive--that may be easier. You might even try some role-playing with a female friend that you don't even want to go out with at all, and practice what to say with her. Good luck.

you need to get your life together mate im only 14 and ive had sex like 30 times with different men

If you have such a negative outlook in life, then so be it, change your attitude for starters and stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something about it, cos if you don't, nothing is ever going to change.

Of course, you could screw everything in sight, and die of AIDS. Wouldn't that suck?

Thats not really a question.