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How can I get him back? :(?

me and this guy had a thing for a while, we weren't officially together or anything... but we were at that point where we were committed to eachother, he made me feel amazing and he so much different from all of the other guys i've been with. He gets me, he's one of the sweetest boys ever!

and things just got really messed up recently. It was at a party and he made out with some chick, i was so choked and hurt.. and what made it worse, after that he just totally avoided me.

he never really talked to me after that, we talk every now and then at school but its only a hey, or about something we were working on in class. I REALLY LIKE HIM, and we would talk on facebook and msn all the time all night, he would call me babe, baby, cutie.. and used to wink at me and give me hugs and kisses all the time :(

now its nothing, i really miss him and i want him back, hes the best thing that's happened to me untill he made out with that one chick. :/

what can i do?

we're both 14..

Update:

2 and a half weeks after he made out with that chick, i was hanging out with him and 2 of our other friends outside of school, and he started flirting again, telling me to sit on his lap... all i was thinking was why is he doing this now? I even asked him later that night why we dont talk anymore, he shrugged his shoulders and said "i dont know, nothing to talk about" im like are you serious, kay f*ck you then.. then on his phone he wrote i love you, and shoved it in my face, and i just told him to screw off.

he does little things now, like trys to trip me, hits me, pinches my sides.. says my name when he sees me and smiles, and hugs me.

but after all that we don't talk on facebook or msn.. but i want everything to go back to the way it was, how do I get him back? what can I say to him?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    well my friend if i was you i would try to find a way to get each other in the same room Alone and talk about your feelings or just be good friends again don't let him forget about you try to talk to him face to face to solve you problem

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just be yourself. It doesn't matter if it's good enough for someone else.

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