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question about sex...?

um, well im a virgin and me and i tried having sex and it HURTS like h***!! we even tried agian later with lube.. we tried several times and he got a little farther in but not much... any tips for a first timer on how to just relax and get it over with!? lol :) i really want to do this, i just cannot stand pain!!

please, any advice would be helpful:)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You're not a virgin if you've had sex.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    You need to do alot of fore-play which means him doing this:

    1.He go's down on you, while you rub your nipples, it will help open you up, there's something that happens when a girls nips are stimulated that opens her up to make sex not hurt so much.

    2.Lube is a must or spit works too. Funny, but true.

    3.You should get on top of him and slide down at your own pace, just keep rubbing the nips and saying the word relax, close your eyes and imagine just how good it's feeling with his touch.

    4.Don't be in a hurry and tell him prior not to be.

    Have fun.

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to be very ready i am talking about naturally wet down there. Figure out what makes you horny,watch a movie or a lot of foreplay, and then relax and don't push the situation it will happen. It is something that should not be rushed.

  • 1 decade ago

    Stay a virgin!!!!!! Trust me, you dont love him, you wont grow up to marry him.. Being a virgin isnt a bad thing.. But you answer you, there is no way to make it better, the first time hurts like a BIT*H, and the 2nd and the 3rd time too...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    At first it hurts like f**k but then it gets good lol like the more that u have sex

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    just close your eyes and dont even think about it.

    think about beautiful butterflies fluttering in the meadow.

    and just have him do it.

    like a bandaid. its better to just do it and get it over it, than to continuously feel a little bit of pain everytime! ouch.

  • 1 decade ago

    well usually the girl is wet enough, which is the lube and it should be fun but there could be some... complications but then that, you just have to put up with.

  • 1 decade ago

    it does really hurt, for some more than others. it's just something women go through.

    if it's really unbearable, you can always consult a physician to make sure nothing is wrong with you.

  • LCC
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You should get a dildo to practice and open you up.

    Source(s): Having sex since the 20th century. LOL.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Have him ram it in from behind. lol

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