I think I want to rape my friend?

Yes, you are right to be worried about these feelings. I am absolutely not kidding or being sarcastic when I say you should talk to someone. Your brother and his friend have been poor role-models of how to interact with people, and you do NOT have to follow their examples.

Women are human beings and deserve respect. We do not deserve to be treated like toys or lesser beings. Beating, raping, threatening, and taking advantage of women is not only criminal, but just obviously wrong! And you've shown here that you KNOW it's wrong. Please seek out professional help so that you can talk out why you feel this way before you do something that will destroy your friendship with this girl and probably land you in prison.

Hey bro I understand were your coming from some women give u the urge too do it but u shouldn't because its wrong, but me personally I don't respect all women, I always fantasize about raping an asian woman I said to my self if I ever had one alone I probably might rape her but never had then opportunity, then one day I had an asian woman come to my house for massage she was kind of old , had nice face nice ****, I was naked and she would put her **** in my face on purpose and there was alot of sexual tension, but I didn't do nothing, I could have easily leap up and forced her to take all her clothes off and rape her with no condom as I didn't have one until I *** in her, but I didn't because I truly im not a rapist, I had a few chances to rape one that gave me a masssge, but its not worth It to me I rather beat off while I would never rape, iF the opportunity came up to force kiss a woman to forcibly lock lips with a woman I woulD definitely do that with no problem.

WTF Sorry but WHY?????????????????? YOUR FRIEND IS A HUMAN BEING! Look just if you wanna go to jail rape her! But you are just MESSED UP! You are being so mean you now that right? You should know that it is such a wrong thing to do. Even with your concious.. why don't you find a girl and have SEX with her instead of Raping your friend huh? You won't go to jail if yo do so but you can't RAPE anybody or if so you r just being mean! Maby you need help.. go try talk to someone before you do something stupid!

I think you've been brave to confront these fantasies and describe them here. It shows a level of courage in you and your innate understanding the potential harm to someone you care about.

I think you already know you don't want to hurt your friend, do you? At the same time, you probably want to make love with her, don't you? And the two feelings - of not wanting to hurt your friend, but wanting to have sex with her - are seemingly conflicting.

You also say you don't like people being weak and defenceless. This is probably at the heart of why you're thinking of rape instead of sex. You are afraid of being weak, vulnerable, defenceless, and so you're imagination is conjuring ways to have sex that don't leave you weak, vulnerable or defenceless. However, the best bit about love, and sex, is the being vulnerable, the opening up to someone, trusting someone so much that all your guards can come down and you can be free and easy with each other. It's a real thrill. The best thrill.

Your weight suggests to me you have an eating disorder that is emotionally based. That is to say, you comfort eat. You're quite unhappy and unsure of yourself, aren't you? The good news is you are brave and courageous enough to understand your misreading things a bit.

You don't need to force someone to do something. In fact, you can be domineering and rough with someone who consents and likes to be dominated and likes rough stuff. But as a virgin - which I am certain you are - you are probably worried about your first time. Don't worry! Easy to say, I know, but it'll be okay. It'll be over in seconds and you'll look silly, but we all do that. It's like learning to ride - first couple of times you'll fall off and not do so well, but then you'll get the hang of it.

Your friend sounds like she really likes you. Maybe that'll develop into something sexual, but don't worry too much. Tell her you'd like to kiss her. See how that goes. And - this is the most important bit - don't force her to do anything. If she says no, it'll hurt a bit but not much really. It's a disappointment, that's all. If she sees that you respect her she'll like that, and so will you.

I hope you got help...but just don't have these thoughts. There's always someone who will refuse this. You'll be the vulnerable one being beaten, and people will REALLY think that you did deserve.

Honestly, if you're going to rape someone..then you might as well get some blow and snort that as well! No joke! At least it will be a bit worth it if you do go to jail for 10 years and then possibly get raped there (MAKE SURE NOT TO SAY THAT YOU'RE A RAPIST rather say that you're a psychopath).

Sweetie i think that its just because your a very strong man so you want to feel strong. It might also be because you seen somebody do that to someone before. Consider getting some help. But until you do that i wouldn't think that your friend would ever consider a relationship or even a sexual relationship with you

Id say you need some counseling or somthing

you can rape me

If it is so tempting for you. Do it in a dream get it off your back. You should and must talk to someone, you are very smart boy and grats for that. You must not do it too her but just in a dream. I think you had terrible role models when you were younger. I hope you take my anwser into thinking.

You need to seek counseling. The fact that you're worried about this is a good first step; the fact that you restrained yourself a better, but the chance that you might not be able to the next time is one you cannot afford to take.