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When I was 14, my aunt and my 10 year old cousin came over for a visit. I was upstairs in my room, I was doing my homework for Health Class, I had to read a chapter on the development of the human body. Anyways my cousin came into my room, and he saw a picture in the book of various pictures of the development of male penis's from birth to adult hood. He pointed out to the picture that was his stage and development, and he said "My penis looks like this see", then he sat on my bed and pulled down his pants and showed me it, he's then like "do you want to touch it", I politely told him "no thanks", and he then he pulled his pants back up. Why would he show me his penis and ask me to touch it? What would have happened if I did touch it?

Neil · Accepted Answer

My thoughts on this are: You should grow up, and find other recreational opportunities.

AshleyLynn · Answer

Hmm...well he is ten years old and he is probably just getting to the age where he's curious and wonders about that type of stuff..Yes it is weird! Like alot weird... but he's probably leared that it kinda feels good to play with it if you know what Im saying. I would talk to him if he trys to do it again and tell him its in-appropriate and that its a private part of his body that he needs to keep to him self and so on...And if you would have touched it...it would have been very wrong and he wokd probably end up telling his mom because he's only ten and she'd probablt take it the wrong way anf think you were sexually touching him. It was a good decition not to....I hope this helped..sorry it not much...good luck :)

jannsody · Answer

Besides the fact that it would've been inappropriate for you to have touched your 10-year-old cousin especially due to him being so young and over three years younger than you, it concerns me that he wanted you to actually touch him.  I'm not sure if he was testing you as to how much he can trust you or if he's been in a situation that was inappropriate for him before as sexual behavior in younger people may point towards them having been abused.  It doesn't exactly mean that your cousin was abused, however, please talk with your mom or dad about it in case there needs to be follow-up pertaining to your cousin know what I mean.

Anonymous · Answer

My thoughts? maybe he was bicurious. Its normal. hes just going through puberty like myself

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Also about your answer to me, he DOESN"T HAVE AN EMAIL!!!! But i do... so what should i do?

And how do i get my mom to think I didn't do it? (If she or the bf asks me)

~goingtobeaunt!~ · Answer

he was probably just being a weird lil kid lol

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