Confused...Don't know what we are or what to do.?

Okay, in some situations a break is a good thing: it can teach appreciation for one another, i can give opportunity to explore other options while having one on the back burner, even spice the relationship back up. Ironically, you never established whether this was a break or a break up. Yes he may have said that you could get back together and still texts you, but this could also be from the fear of change. The change from taken to single can be stressful and confusing for many at first. If it has only been a few days give it about a week or two and see where you are then. I would ask you a few questions but you would have to answer them for me to give better insight. So for the sake of less time and space i'll just assume I know the answers and if not correct me in an edit of your post.

What are the reasons for this? If you've been together for a long time (i.e. years not months) it could be that the relationship is dwindling or lacks breathing space and romance. In this situation give him time to think and at the same time you do the same. taking a break does not mean that you have to see other people, but it does mean space. If you have been together for a short amount of time, however he could just be letting you down easily or the same as the long-term relationship break. Either way its gonna suck, when he starts to see other people, because lets be honest he isn't going to wait forever for you start dating other people if he really wants to.

Can you handle knowing that he might be sleeping with someone else? If you can more power to you. Most likely though your answer is like most; no. Then the relationship that was on a break can turn into a "who-can-make-who-madder contest". Don't let it get that far.

Advice: Talk to him, ask him what exactly is going on. Tell him that you are actually consulting help from total strangers, because you are afraid what this "break" may actually mean. if he beats around the bush and tells you idk or I am in love with you but I am not in love with you, just don't bother with it. on the flip-side if he actually talks to you and explains his reasoning and it is logical and makes sense give him the chance to prove it to you.

It sounds like a break to me. My ex and I went through stuff like that all the time. Basically, it just means yal are having time apart to think about if you're truly happy together or if you need to move on. Give it a week or so and see how things are going. Make sure you are both ready to be with eachother again before you jump back into the relationship.

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i think he is tryin to see if he can keep u and see other girls at the same time. even if he says he is not dating dont trust it fully. once u start to date he will eather come beging for u to forgive him. guys dont want to think of girls they like or love with another man. TRUST THAT!!

Decision time!

either you need to break it off completely or stay together it seems to be your choice!

Sounds to me he wants to get another girl but if he doesn't he has u:p my guess is ur his opption but I might be wrong. If u beleve him stay with him but think about wat I wrote above:p

Well you really have to set a meeting to discuss your concerns. answer mine please. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Amf96...

too crowded,