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How do I ditch this girl? I met her at a bar 3 weeks ago and hung out with her twice.?

In the beginning it was cool. She would text me and I would text her back but I found out that I am not interested in her and she has been texting me non-stop without me texting her back. She isn't saying anything hurtful but keeps asking these questions:

Hi how are you, who are you with, what are you doing?

I have not text her back-wouldn't you get the message that I am not interested?

I was hoping she would but obviously she hasn't. I don't want to be mean so how do I tell her to take a hike, nicely?

Update:

Thanks for the help, gals. I have decided that I am going to give her the dirty sanchez.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    next time she texts you and asks you like "hey how are you" just answer her and say "oh im good how are you?" at some point in this conversation she will most likely ask you to hangout. when she asks that just say something along the lines of "before i answer that i just want you to know i am not interested in more than friendship right now and if you are looking for something more than that then im sorry but that's not what i want, i just thought you should know that before we hangout"

    if she is texting you that much then she is probably looking for some sort of relationship and since you are clearly stating you don't want that things will likely fizzle out and she will leave you alone.

    if she says that's ok then she is just an annoying girl and id say just block her number lol.

  • Chanel
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I would text 'I'm waiting for an important text. I want to keep the line free'.

    If she phones then you can repeat like a scratched record "I have to keep the line free" and hang up.

    OR what about 'Don't text me any more. I'll text you' and same if she calls.

    You have to do something. She MAY go away if you ignore but only may!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You could just keep ignoring her, she will leave you alone eventually. Or just tell her directly that you don't think things are going to work out and that she should move on. You have only met twice, it's not like she's going to be heartbroken.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe u can just tell her that ur out with your girlfriend, that should do the trick.

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