I like her, she likes me, she has a boyfriend, what do I do now? Long story!!!?

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Ok, so I meat this girl like 2 weeks ago. We started talking, and texting. So one day she said that she had a crush on me, and I told her that I do have a crush on her to. One day she told me that I was cute, and I told her how beautiful she was to. And one day she told me that she likes me. I told her that if she likes my personality or something else, and she said everything. And I told her the same thing. Now after this she won't make eye contact with me when I'm with her. Today I saw her with her friend and she was trying to run away so I won't see her but I did so she came back and she was shy, did not made eye contact when I talked to her. And after I told her that I like her she won't reply to my text msg's alot. Like I would send her one, and she would reply, I reply back, and she won't reply anymore. Now when I talked to her on the phone yesterday she talked to me normal, and I told her why won't she make eye contact, and she said because she was shy. And when I call her, she won't answer as much 2.

Now here is a other problem. She said that she has a boyfriend, but they are into some issues. I think she told me that he told her that he is into alot of stress and that it's stressful having a girlfriend and playing a sport and school. And she told me that they were going to break up on Sunday or on Monday, but she told me they dint. Now on her Facebook she said that she is been single for two days now. So I don't know if they already broked up or not. And he goes to a other school so they don't see each other often. Probably only on weekends. So I think she still gots feelings for him, and she said on Facebook that she misses him. So yea, that's the problem. I like her but I don't know if she truly likes me, because she dosent make eye contact with me and she dosent answer my text allot like she used to and she tried to run away from me today. So idk if I'm annoying her. So what should I do? Ask her out, if I do when is he good time, be friends with her?

Rob-Z · Accepted Answer

Don't pay attention to these duches **** it keep trying get her. Get get her  alone tell her we should hang out then just tell her what's up with you and her

? · Answer

If she has a boyfriend then you can't do much about it. But if she is single you should wait to ask her out till she isn't shy around you anymore. You want to be able to have fun and talk and laugh around each other, not have her run away from you! lol. (: give it time and see how it works out.

Jack Torrance · Answer

WOWWWW!!!
Similar situation much?!

I had to triple check to make sure I didn't write it and get amnesia...  Honestly, I even asked her if she liked me only physically or personality too and she said "all together", and she told me she is a bit shy when I asked why she wasn't really speaking to me or looking me in the eye.

She is also having problems with her boyfriend (arguments mainly) but sometimes she defends him saying it's because he loves her that they argue.  But sometimes it sounds like she's unhappy with him.

Only difference is they haven't broken up ffs :l

By the way in your case, HE broke up with HER, trust me, so she will still have feelings for him.  Tell her that you will wait until her feelings for him go, tell her to not get in another relationship until she's ready and then she can go out with you.

Anonymous · Answer

This is very interesting. She said she has a crush on you. Maby you said something that offended her or something that she didnt like. Just ask her freinds or tell her yourself. And maby she has feelings for the ex bf

V · Answer

i did not read your passage. but if she likes you and is engaged in a relationship let HER MAKE/CALL the shots. if she really likes you she will break it off with her current and go with you. if not dont become a cheat toy. good luck and talk it over with this girl. find out where she stands and what she wants to do ASK QUESTIONS

Raeh · Answer

wow im in the SAME situation. I'm thinking i should just wait a month to ask her out. i want to give her some space because she needs to heal from her breakup....but its up to you if you want to ask her out now or sometime later. Your call dude

Coco · Answer

you need to clarify with her what's going on and make sure she like you again before you ask her out!

? · Answer

hit the kid show her how much you lover her, willing to fight for her XD na dont do it might get the cops on you

? · Answer

if she has a boyfrand , she likes u she will break up with him, but if shes in love its a big mistake...

Mmedvin · Answer

if she has a boyfriend then f off

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