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How can I stop thinking about this girl?

In November I told this girl how I felt about her. She thanked me. The following month, I decided to message her on facebook for explaining my reasoning of why I did what I did. She messaged me back telling me to give up and that she has a boyfriend and they will be together forever. The next 3 weeks I said hi to her if I saw her, she ignored me basically everytime. Than one day she deleted me as a friend on Facebook. I now know she is a straight up b*tch. I run into her mostly everyday.

 How can I ignore her? Because,half of me hates her and half of me still has feelings for her. This has been going on for way too long.

Update:

@ Michael- I know that. I wasn't looking for a relationship. I just wanted to be friends.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I'm really sorry, I've been through that kind of problem, and it hurts. Tell ya what I did, I pertended to not care anymore. Like, when I see him in the hallway I'd just look away and laugh with my friends. I know it's hard to forget someone you like/love, but getting rejected is part of life. Hang out with some friends, go to the movies.. Do something that has nothing to do about her. OR you could listen to some music. That always helps me. xox

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Seeing her every day must be really hard. You're attracted to the rejection, more than her. You can't possibly like someone who could treat you like that, and in time you will feel better. You have to remember your good own qualities, and whether you would treat someone the way she has treated you. Although, she might not dislike you, you're just not the one for her and it made her uncomfortable when you told her what you did. It hurts so much, I know...but one day someone much nicer will come into your life.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    she has a bf. respect dude. learn it

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