Going to college... Girlfriend upset. What should I do?

You said "going to college." But you also said at the end that you both are in college.

If you both are in high school:

Yes, she is being very immature and selfish. Relationships that go from high school to college are often unsuccessful. People are lucky to make it past Thanksgiving break. In fact, there is the "Thanksgiving Test." If a couple makes it that far, they are more likely to stay in a relationship until the end of the school year.

She is a sophomore in high school. First, that is uncool for a college kid to date someone that young. Second, you've only been dating for four months. Which means that the relationship is still young and it would probably hurt more later as opposed to now. You will only be 2 hours away. If she can't handle that, she's obviously not mature enough for a long term relationship.

You're right; this situation really isn't a big deal. Besides, my high school sweetheart and I broke up (my first year in college... in fact, it was right before Thanksgiving Break) and now I am dating this wonderful guy. Things work out for the better, even if it may not seem that way at first.

If you two are in college:

I'm a sophomore in college and my boyfriend will be graduating this year. I understand that he needs to build his future. Though separation will be hard, we love each other so we will do what we can to keep our relationship going. I will NOT hinder him from living his life. He has dreams. Who am I to keep him to myself? If we end up breaking up, that's that and everyone will move on.

Basically, what I am saying is that she is wrong to try to keep you from progressing in your life. Do what you need to do. She is being immature and selfish. Put in black and white, I say break up with her. Life goes on and everything will be ok, I promise.

Bro' Vin:

* #1 Go to College, as planned~

* #2 Break it off with her! She is Unstable!

* #3 Do NOT Buy Her ANYTHING!

* #4 Focus on your studies!

* #5 Meet MANY Hotties at your school.

* #6 Maintain a "friendly" NO Drama communication chanel with her.

* #7 Go through as much "hurt" as you can in Life.

This is all a part of being a well-rounded MAN,

with Emotional-Intelligence! Do you want to be a Real Man?

Good Luck~

Have Fun~

Date Many Hotties in College!

Keep your mind on your Future & Career!

shes being immature.

dun ruin ur future for her, plz.

u can get much better girl who puts u 1st instead of herself

shes so damn selfish.

save cash for college.

dun waste ur precious future and money on tht slut.

next day she will say, if u dun get me a diamond ring, ill dump u. like wtf?

dump her 1st, she doesnt even love u. and love isnt abt selfishness.

its only been 4 months get rid of her no ones needs a GF that is so selfish as to want to deny someone of getting an education and improving themselves

Break up with her. Go to school.. Find someone your own age at school.