am i doing a terrible thing please help me?

what a great sex story...you're really talented well done!

Your not a lesbian you are just feeling let out and you used kate to fill that void. If I were you sit your boyfriend done and tell him know how you feel. Also to be honest I was in a similar situation and if he can't show passion toward you, when your having sex together why would you agree to do that, it should be a mutual thing. If you don't like threesomes do not say yes because that is only for his advantage. Do things that you both enjoy and work on spicing up your sex life together doing one on one stuff and if you both choose to do this again make sure there is a understanding so nobody gets hurt Again. Also be assertive get your demands met because if not it will just be him getting his demands met and also address the issue with him being all over the girl kate and saying those things to her because that is disrespectful towards you.

Threesomes can sometimes be awkward when you are in a relationship with someone. I would have gotten jealous as well if my boyfriend was showing more attention to the other...member lol. As for what you and kate are doing, I dont think it necessarily makes you a lesbian. I am not a lesbian or even bisexual but I have experimented in the bedroom with women. You are experimenting and if it does continue and you are also attracted to other women you could be bisexual. It could just be a phase though. Technically you are cheating on him and, tbh, I dont think he would mind as it is with a woman, you should tell him.

The rules of your relationship have changed. You and Josh and Kate need to figure out what the new rules of your relationship are, what you can expect from each other, what it means to trust each other and feel safe and cared for.

You aren't doing anything terrible, as long as you are honest with each other. If you're still sexually/romantically interested in men, you're not a lesbian - if you're sexually/romantically interested in men and women, you're probably bisexual.

Tell Josh how much you appreciate the gift he's given you of sharing Kate with you - and make sure he knows how important he is to you for himself, not just because of Kate. Tell Kate how wonderful it is to have her in your life. Don't be afraid to enjoy what you have with each of them and with both of them.

You're fine. Talk to your boyfriend and Kate. Tell your boyfriend that you need more attention but would like another threesome. And talk to Kate about your feelings. Good luck :)

Sounds like you're bisexual. Nothing wrong with that, just enjoy her while you 2 are getting along. It sounds like Josh might've already been hooking up with her, or at least talking about it to her, because the very next day he brought her home, and paid her more attention than you. This relationship, with either of them, probably won't last, so like I said, enjoy it while you can.

I would say you are a lesbian. I think you need to talk to Kate about it and see if she is feeling the same way you are about her. If she is you definitely need to talk to your boyfriend about it. Not to mention I don't think it's right how hes basically ignoring you in bed and giving her all the attention thats just wrong... sounds to me like you can do better whether its Kate or another guy.

lucky him and you! I wish I could have some action like this!

But seriously, it was his idea to bring her for you guys to have a 3some so he brought it onto himself. IF you enjoy it when she has sex with you and you also enjoy sex with your bf, that makes you bi-sexual. You like him and her. Theres no shame in it and no doubt your boyfriend would be good with it since he wanted it in the first place. Like I said, he brought it onto himself

wow ! totally awesome and fantastic , and best of all , all 3 of you totally like and want each other! its a match made in heaven , so dont stop ! tell him that he turned you on to a great thing . tell him you want more of her , him and you together !

this is so fascinating im gonna starr it ! more .. and more ! oh yeah , and never stop . youre not cheating on him , so continue having the time of your life ! im really envying you !

i think you are taking rebellion on josh because you felt left out. the way he treated you was unjust and i'm sorry i wouldn't have stayed with him after a night like that. kate seems to like you tho idk how much. you might be bisexual.

personally i wouldnt have had consented to a 3some

he's gotta be loving it, u both are prob bisexual so thats like heaven for him, suggest ome more threesomes and u wont technically be cheating ;)