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is it wrong for us to be doing this?

well, i want to know if what me and my friend have been doing is a bad thing.

a couple of weeks ago us (my friend and i) and two other friends were playing truth or dare in class.

and i've had a huge crush on my friend (a guy of course) for almost 2 years, but he knows i like him.

i hadn't had my first kiss yet so he was dared to kiss me, and he went for it like if nothing.

and a week after that we were walking together after school and he kissed me again.

and he plans on kissing me again when we we're in school this week.

but he isn't my boyfriend and doesn't plan on going out with me since he has a girlfriend in another school.

but is this a bad thing? should we stop? or is it okay since his girlfriend doesn't know?

what do you guys think?

i'm 15 and he's 16 by the way

thanks in advance to anyone who took the time to read and answer my question

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Run!!! He has a girlfriend? That is just a disaster in the making. She'll find out, and it will be trouble. Don't put yourself in the drama, find someone who isn't already taken by someone else. :-)

    Source(s): Experience.
  • Think of it like this , If you were in his girlfriends shoes and you found out somehow your boyfriend kissed another girl? would you be hurt upset or even angry? Yes of course , so maybe it is a bad thing. But if i were you i would explain to him why it isn't such a good idea to keep this up. I've had the same situation a couple of weeks ago and the boy broke up with his girlfriend and keeps flirting with me even when shes around now. She looked so sad and part of me felt for her . but then again i like him. So it's complicated. (btw sorry to annoy you with my problems);)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think you should confront him about it. ask him if he really has feelings for you... he wouldn't just kiss you randomly. i think the kissing thing wrong, no matter how much fun it is for you! think about the other girl. how horrible she would feel when she found out her boyfriend was kissing another girl. put yourself in her shoes! don't be the other woman.

    basically, he's cheating. i'd stop it. his girlfriend will find out he's a cheater, and break up with him. that's not the type of guy i'd go out with either!! cheat once, he'll cheat again. trust me.

    Source(s): i've dated a man-slut!
  • 1 decade ago

    It's obviously wrong. He has a girlfriend already! Stop it. Do you want her on your case? How would you feel if your boyfriend went around snogging other girls? If you have to ask if it's wrong, it probably is. And in this case, it definitely is.

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  • 1 decade ago

    i think it is a bad thing because he has a girlfriend, its cheating and i for one hate people who cheat! if hes gonna cheat then he shouldnt be with this other girl, and how do you know he wont do it to you if you ever starting going out?

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    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Yes, you know it is wrong.

    He has a girlfriend in another school. He's trying to have two now. Whether or not his girlfriend knows doesn't matter- you know!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Is it wrong? yes, cause your being used. He doesnt like you enough to call you his girlfriend. Stop being used.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you were dating him would you want him kissing that other girl? he just thinks hes something trailing 2 girls along.

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