what do you consider cheating in a relationship?

I consider anything you do with another guy/girl that you wouldn't want to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend as cheating. There's emotional cheating and physical cheating. They both hurt. Emotional cheating can include talking to someone else that you like, confiding in them, not telling them that you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, not making it clear that you are not looking for anything else other than a friendship. Physical cheating is kissing, touching, handjob, *******, fingering, oral sex, intercourse, anal sex.

There's no black and white answer, because it's not the same thing hugging someone who you like and hugging someone you don't like. The person above me is right, emotionally cheating is worse. Sometimes people physically cheat but there are no emotions involved. Liking someone else isn't cheating as long as you don't act on it. However, if you like someone else, you probably shouldn't be in a relationship with whoever you're in one with. Texting is fine, not sexting. Holding hands...definite no.

well to me cheating is i would say anything more than holding hands and hugging...cuz i have guy friends who i sometimes hold hands with...but i don't consider it cheating.

all of those thing you mentioned above is called emotionally cheating, which is much worse