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How would you tell someone about an abortion?
Specifically, how would one go about telling the father they plan on getting an abortion?
THE father, as in, the father of the foetus.
ghfjfhjf: What makes you think I'm having an abortion? This is a hypothetical question, and I can't abort at 28 weeks. Silly girl.
8 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
"i have a baby in my stomach, and i must destroy it. journey with me through the lands of morrowind and we shall defeat the overlord dragon shayla, and recover arthur's sword- together, we are powerful."
- K KLv 51 decade ago
The decision to have or not have an abortion is your and only yours, it is between you and your doctor. Thus, it is not necessary to tell the sperm donor. Again that is your decision. If you think he needs to know and will be supportive then just tell him you have recently found you are pregnant and are making arrangements for an abortion. He will react in one way or another and you have to be prepared for that. Be prepared for what might come up, but in the end the decision is yours. My opinion, if you are interested, is before having sex with anyone you should discuss how you plan to handle any pregnancy that could happen. I know that is not always easy to do, but it does help if you can do it. I have been in the same position as you, so if you want to discuss anything send me a message and I will be happy to discuss any concerns you have.
- izzyLv 71 decade ago
Say you are not ready for the responsibility of a child.
Would you feel differently if the father was someone else?
If so say so, or rather say this one is not the man you would want to have in your life permanently
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It would really depend upon how understanding the guy is .
There are some guys that you could tell and they would loving and supportive of your decision
While there are other guys that you could tell that would be angry ,hostile and possibly violent about it
If you had sex with the guy that is prone to anger and rage then IF you chose to tell him then you do so after the fact
Just be careful and good luck
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- 1 decade ago
sick. there's people out there that would do anything to had a baby and then there's people like you going around having abortions like their nothing it makes me sick. if you don't want the kid give it up for adoption, you should of used a condom if you knew you didn't want a kid. your cruel.
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
I don't have a father.... if i did i would simply tell him ''Hey stupid i'm going to get rid of a baby''.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
"I'm pregnant, and I'm leaning towards abortion"
He'll most likely jump for joy.
Source(s): Had an abortion. - Anonymous1 decade ago
"Dad, I'm going to get rid of a booger."