Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

What would you say in this situation?

I met a guy online and we had lunch together, went shopping and ended up sharing some wine @ his house. One thing led to another and.... (fill in the blank).

The next time I talked to him on instant messenger, I said we should do something soon. He responded with "I'm kinda busy and I won't be available til mid March cuz I'm picking up shifts at work".

I know exactally what it means...but I kinda want to send him a text message saying "whatever-don't bother calling me after mid march".

What would YOU say?

5 Answers

Relevance
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    he used u, which is very sad. I'm a guy so can think of how an ego works lol. I think that if u like each other u would like to see each other as much as possible. If u want to slap him in the face, I would suggest u the following: text him. "hey, mid March is coming soon, but I am now seeing a lovely guy tho. I'll try to make some time for u but don't depend on it. I don't find it useful to risk something great over u". That would touch his ego ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    I'd just tell him, "Alright, talk to ya later." and then ignore him

    Don't call. Don't text. Don't email.

    Pretend you forgot about him or he isn't important (or even worse, wasn't memorable in bed!) and if he's like most other guys he'll get curious as to what you're up to. More than likely he'll eventually call, text or message you and ask if you want to get together. When he does, tell him that it sounds good but you're super busy. Blow him off that one time and then wait a couple of days. Then reply to him and tell him you want to get together and go do whatever.

    Don't make any specific plans though. Just tell him you would like to hang out or "go do whatever".

    That way there's no pressure as far as plans go, but he feels like he can just chill and reconnect with you. And obviously figure out why you didn't chase him around like he would have liked.

    Source(s): Experience. Trust me - I have lots of it.
  • Id say well thanks but I rather you not message me after mid march bc you have a tiny...BRAIN! and I met someone better or im too good for you and I made a big mistake that night sorry to hurt you just make it seem like you're dumping him

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    im not gay but i'll try.

    "Well. I do not think that I would like to have wine at your house anymore or have things lead to another. In fact, I have a very nice fiance that is waiting for me at this very moment. and she is FEMALE.(that should surprise him) goodbye.

    p.s. you need to buy a better quality wine

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hes a jerk just leave him alone and live ur life1

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.