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Boyfriend trouble.. help?
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I'm somewhat happy with this relationship but for the past few days it has been non-stop fighting. About two weeks ago we took a break and we got back together. We took the break because he was neglecting me big time and would do other things such as make me beg to call him (if you wanna know everything look at my other questions). But anyway, we got back together and since then he's spent more time talking to me and such but all we've been doing is fighting. Then he tells me that if I break up with him he's gonna kill himself. My guy friends tell me that he's just saying that to get me to stay but he sounds really serious when he tells me and I'm scared to find out if he's bluffing or not. So for this reason, when I feel like I wanna break it off with him, I don't because I don't want him to do that and me to lose him completely. What do I do?
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
This is a very sticky situation. Long distance relationships are hard. Don't let others tell you that they never work because I have had a long distance relationship last for 4 years. At the moment, though, you are in a sticky situation. Fighting is never good, but all couples have those. If you have that feeling like you want to, then do so. There is no reason why you shouldn't be happy. That boy could be serious, and that's a risk you are going to have to take. This all depends on what you want to do as an individual. If you think there is a chance that you two will work, then I would suggest talking it out with him and maybe not talk to him as much as before. Letting you guys cool off the steam and frustration of fighting. But, if you believe that things are not going to work out, then end it. The risk is inevidable, meaning, it cannot be stopped. You don't want to feel the guilt like you killed him if he did end up committing suicide. Maybe talk to a school counsilor if you feel like he is serious. In all reality tho, you should not feel any pressure into being with him. You deserve to be happy.
- 1 decade ago
Mental health is a serious problem in todays society. I am an EMT / Fireman and I see it throughout society. Your boyfriend sounds seriously unstable. Out of all your guy friends, don't you have someone that lives near you that you could date? Lose the baggage before he hurts himself and involves you more than what you are right now.
Kelly
