About making friends as a shy person, help?

dont worry everything will be ok! :) .... i feel the same way sometimes .... just start by saying hi .... and try not to go to any of the popular kids .... its fine if your scared its normal so dont worry .... i still have trouble making friends its hard sometimes .... and also i think a few kids are trying to be friends with me but im still kinda afraid to talk with them .... just go to the people who u think will make good friends for you and sit next to them and just start by saying hi or i like your shirt .... just something cassual u know? .... good luck! :)

Lol Ethical? Seriously? It's not like you are conducting an experiment on someone where they will get hurt. A lot of people make friends like that, it just makes it less awkward for some people, because some people to get uncomfortable if you just walk up to them rather then perhaps talk about something you know they are interested in or have in common. What you can do is approach someone perhaps you see often, or see in your classes so you have some common ground. Good luck, I am shy too and not until my second semester did I really start making friends that I would hang out with, but my first semester I did make friends from classes I had by just talking to someone next to me in class one day about the class or the work load and then finding them the next class and sitting next to them. Then we became friends : )

there are probably an awful lot of shy people there but they're feeling the same way as you. So take some initiative. You just gotta suck it up and make the first move. Find some cool event that you think is interesting and might interest your prospective friend, and ask them if they want to check it out with you. It might feel weird to do this, but the worst that can happen is they say they're busy. Make sure you add everyone you meet to your Video Chat Rounds on Facebook (http://apps.facebook.com/chatrounds/ ). Keeping up with people online is a good way to build relationships, especially if you don't get to see people every day.

I always have that same issue. I never know if someone im sat next to wants to talk or not. I grew up with my dad talking to everyone even tho they didnt really want to and it always embarased me so I don't take the chance now. if you can make convo and there's people you want to chat to the just go ahead and do it. it's always worth starting with a question to get things going like how did you find that essay etc. some people are just waiting for you to talk to them as they are the same way lol i know i am. good luck with it.

I'm shy too. I avoid any random/forced encounters in public places. Maybe join a club that shares similar interests as you, so then you have a subject to talk about and make friends.

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