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My Boyfriend wants to do Oral sex?

My boyfriend and I been together for 3 years and we haven't had type of Sex just yet since we been together. He has done stuff so he ain't a virgin but I am. He is wanting to do something on are anniversarie I am just not sure how to do oral. have any pointers so I wont mess anything up?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You don't sound ready or eager. Don't do it if you don't want to.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    ok.....am sure you know the basics. don't worry, your bf will guide you through it and once it's in your mouth you will start to pick-up on feedback from him on what feels good and what doesn't. it's natural and you will discover more advanced techniques/tricks on your own. Have him do you so you know what feels good on the receiving end. I would say the biggest difference between guys is what they want you to do with his goo when the time "comes": some guys want to see their own shot, and most of those will give you a "faciial" unless they prefer to put it in another area like arm pits, chest, crack, bush.....it's up to them. Most will want to shoot in your mouth: some want you to act greedy for it, some want to role play a little like they are making you take it. It will take you a couple times to get used to taking a load in your mouth: you will become accustomed to not gagging on it and will develop a love of the taste. Some guys will want you to hold it in your mouth so you can "snowball": kiss and pass it back and forth between you. Some will want you to open your mouth so they can see their load in there. Most important is to not spit it out and waste it: you must swallow, showing him you enjoy it so he won't be insulted. Nearly all guys get into giving head: there is something about giving pleasure to your partner that makes it very erotic for you, too. No matter what the first time is like you will grow to enjoy doing it and become proud of your skills.

  • 1 decade ago

    Lol babe,you can't mess up.

    Just stick it in and suck it.

    But DONT use your teeth.

    And remember,the head of it is the most sensitive part.

    So if you try to "deep throat" it and he's BIG your most likely gonna gag lol but don't worry they "like" that.Apperently it makes them think they are "big" lol.

    But heres the best tip

    When you go up as far as you can,you go back down and repeat it like 7-8 times and then slowly slide your mouth on the head.he like most likely groan.thats when you know your doing it right lol!!!

    Good luck!!!!!!

    Source(s): I think its awesome your a virgin.Dont be shy of sex though.If you love him,he will love you.Dont forget,"love" before "sex" <33
  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Watch deepthroat that will give you some good pointers.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    This is horrible no respect for children on line..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Take your time, don't over think it. It's an expression of love. Watch some gay porn if it helps. He loves you so don't worry.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Download a porn movie and do what they do.

    Why am I the only one giving a practical answer?

  • Just so you know the facts - They have done studies recently found that ORAL SEX can give you THROAT CANCER. Just so you know.

  • 1 decade ago

    sorry but i don't feel sex is right unless married

    ask and should tell you what is good

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