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What do I do when it comes to guys?

I desperately need help... there are five guys with a significant impact in my life right now and I have no idea what to do concerning any of them. (Here are the five guys: Ryan, Adam, Hunter, Hyrum and South) About a year ago, I came to know Ryan and I felt almost positive that I would end up marrying him. He is everything that I have ever wanted in a guy but it's been a while since I saw him and I feel like we are starting to lose the connection.

Next is Adam who has a twin brother, Archer who my best friend likes. They are both such great friends and we get along with them great! (not to mention that they are very cute) It seems like destiny that my friend and I could each marry one of them and then be related!

Then there is Hunter, who is 4 years older than me but has such a sparkle in his eye and simply radiates goodness. He is an amazing singer and I could just listen to him all day long. I started liking him in December but since then I feel like I've started to kind of like a lot of guys. Hunter is a great example to me, but i don't know him very well.

Then there is Hyrum who likes me alot and I have a little squish on. I am trying to become better friends with him but don't know how exactly to start that process. Finally there is South. He is one of my best friends but lately I have been getting hints that he may like me more than I thought. He has been showing obvious signs of affection and I'm starting to be afraid that I might like it. There seems to be a little bit of jealousy going on from him towards Hyrum as I have been getting to know Hyrum better. I would assume that Hyrum has possibly also felt his own share of jealousy because I am with South a lot. Every time that South comes around, Hyrum quickly disappears. It seems like when I get to know Hyrum better, it will start to push South away and vise versa. I just don't know what to do because I want to maintain the friendship that I have with South but also kind of like Hyrum and don't want him to think that I like South!!! If I grow closer to Hyrum it could jepoardize my friendship with South, but it also could if South and I ever have a relationship and it ended on a bad note, so pretty much either way my great friendship with South is kind of on the line :( I have an activity set up with Hyrum some time soon, and South has made it clear that he does not approve and would rather have me spending the time with him.

This is all so confusing because I have never really had experience with guys and don't know what to do! I am not really ready to have a serious relationship yet and don't plan on settling down for a couple of years. There is an ongoing war in my head and I don't know which side to take! Please! Somebody help me, I feel like I'm going to die if I don't figure out this mess! HELP!!!!!!!

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    1 decade ago
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    It sounds like if you choose one, the others will all be hurt and move on.... soooo it's up to you how you choose to go. Either get to know one and the others will go... or keep living in this circle of guys... personally, I think you have it best the way it is... just being friends with them all... but it's all up to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    The other guys seem to be outta the question the one's u seem more interested in is South and Hyrum so it makes it easier to decide. If i were u i would date Hyrum and tell South i just want to be friends because things can go bad if the relationship between u 2 goes bad, like having an awkward friendship!

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