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Should I end things with him?

i have been with this guy for almost 5 years. I really love him and would do almost anything for him, he loves me also (lol) but lately things havent been going so well. he doesnt text or call and we havent had a normal conversation for over a month. i still love him but i think i need some time to myself. I want to improve my spiritual life and just straighten things out in my life, focus more on college and such. i just dont want anything to do with guys for a couple of months, the thing is after i kind of settle in more i want to be with him again.. but for now i want to break up with him. idk, should i do it? if yes, how do i say it so he will know tht i still want him later? idk please help. any advice is welcome.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    me and my guy dated for a year. and i broke up with him. moved on and had 2 other bfs not at the same time lol. he didn't have any gf after me for a year. but in the end, after dating two of them, i still find that he was the one i wanted to be with. so i started talking to him again and we're back together again for almost another year! so in conclusion, what is meant to be is meant to be no matter when it happens..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just remember that if you do break it off then dont be mad nor upset if he decides to move on because you asked for this. Be sure absolutely sure that this what you want because once its done it will be no turning back

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