What do you think about this friend?

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This friend was one of my best friend.  I'm the one who call her all the time (long distance.)  She doesn't call me very often.  For some unknown reason I got a heart attack on January 8, 2011.  I was in the hospital in ICU  for 6 days.  I called her and she didn't answer the phone so I sent her a tex.  She called me back, we talk for a short time.  She told me that she was sorry after we talk for 5-10 minutes, then she told me that she had another call in the other line and that was the end.  It had been about two month already and she had called.  I feel hurt, but I'm not planning to call her any more.  I want to thank all of you ahead for your answer.  I wonder what do you think.  I give all my love.  I'm getting better.

Sorry if I put this in the wrong category.  (By the way I live alone and don't have any family here)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

well my thoughts are, if she is putting things before her own friendship then let it go for a bit and make some new friends. she will soon see the mistake she has made. please give it time and btw hope you have a great day :)

Anonymous · Answer

I  am afraid that sometimes friends do let us down very badly and we have to let them go. I am sorry to hear that you have been very unwell but it is good that you are making progress. Are you able to get out of the house very much or do you still have to take things slowly? If you are able to get about why not try something gentle like a book club or discussion group. Ask at your local library. Loneliness is a hard thing to live with and joining activities does not always bring immediate friendship but at least one is seeing other people an, who knows, but given time a friendship and friendships may be made. I do not know what religion you are but, sometimes, our place or worship have people who visit those who are on their own. My very good wishes.

Kylie Mckenzzie · Answer

try to forget about her..... if she calls and asks what's wrong you can then let her know and see what happens from there. 

as for living alone and having no family there, if you are lonely may i suggest you try joining some kind of club or class for entertainment and to try and make some new and better friendships. for example a book/  movie club or an art class/writing class..... if you goggle it i am sure you will be able to find something in your area to both give you some entertainment and hopefully new friendships....


i  hope you are now feeling much better xx

Anonymous · Answer

I'm sorry you have been unwell. Hopefully you are feeling better now.
This person isn't actually a friend. She is just someone you speak to very occasionally. 
There doesn't seem much point in continuing to keep in touch so as you say I would drop her.

Anonymous · Answer

Thats just wrong to me I don't blame you if you don't talk to her but i'm not telling you to
Oh hope you get better sorry about that

emesumau · Answer

Give up, some people just arnt worth it. I have many friends like that. Their loss.

Anonymous · Answer

Well 1) Where are you located?
2) You should talk to her again. Don't be a bad afraid :)
3) Answer mine please? :) http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110320004039AAXCUOu

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