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Okay so last Thursday night (St. Patricks day) my best guy friend and I messed around,(but didn't have sex.)?
He goes to college 3 hours away so we rarely see each other now but were good friends in high school and Im 19 and he is 20. He came into town for Spring Break so we both went to the same party and we were both drinking..and at the end of the night we wound up in the same bed..its now 430 in the morning and he knows that I have had a crush on him since about 5th grade but nothing has ever happened between us. Well we were holding hands then one thing leads to another and we start kissing and things start to get hot and heavy but no close come off just grinding and making out and cuddling..In the morning we don't talk about it. He knows that I have always had a crush on him..Now I don't know what to think :/ I almost wish this wouldn't have happened because I'm afraid that he was just doing to be nice or something like that and that he doesn't have feelings for me. Maybe it is just as well and I need to just let it go. I just don't understand why he would have done all of that if he didn't care at least a little? He is a virgin and Im not Idk if that makes a difference or not but I thought I would just add that.
Also after this happened the next day a group of us were hanging out downtown at around 1130pm, (I live in a tiny town about 2000ppl, so downtown is just a small square), and he was there as well and we really didn't talk much but a little and he seemed kind of weird..and after I left he stayed with my other friend Art and they talked about it, both good friends of mine and Art said that he told him all the same things I said and that he added "Yeah I always knew she had a crush on me, so I just thought that I would make her dreams come true." He is silly and would say something like that, but is that just him being a guy? or was this really just a pitty hook up :/ I know I shouldn't be thinking about this as much as I am but I can't help it!
3 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
He is a virgin, then something like that might have made him a little worried after he sobered up. I think usually we do things we want under intoxication. However, in his sober state he may think logically and conclude that he should not be with you. I think since you have been friends for so long he may be worried about ruining that. However, i think he does have an attraction for you. If you think that he just wants to be friends then just carry on acting like that. Also, act like it was not a big deal. Tell him " hey wasn't that crazy we were so drunk we actually snogged each other, LOL", "but hey your a great kisser and good thing i did it with you and not some stranger, LOL "...... or something like that. Just play it off and remain friends, and who knows, maybe later on you two can get together and be more then friends and start a relationship.
Good Luck
- 1 decade ago
I think it was just the booze, it happens believe me.
I think you should let it go, the distance relationship would have been hard on you anyway, and it was good you finally got to do stuff with him, but I think you just have to let it go, it'll make things less awkward.
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- 1 decade ago
Its st patricks day. It doesnt mean anything. Just forget about it.
Source(s): i have made out and ground with many girls on st patricks day over the years.
