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Is this a good realationship? Ladies I need your help?

Ive been dating my Girlfriend for 4 months 3 weeks and 1 day. My longest by far. I love her more then any other girl i ever have! but it seems like we fight every other week. I just cant imagine being with anyone else, id hate to lose her. She is the the only girl I have EVER cried over and i want to know if she loves me as much as i love her. Ladies I need your help. Thank you

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  • 1 decade ago
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    fights happen all the time honestly its the only way to work a good relationship... theres gonna be issues but you can work them out... and yes she loves you because she cares enough to fight about whatever bothers her

  • 1 decade ago

    Its hard to to tell when i am not aware of how old you both are.

    If you are young you need to keep in mind and i know its whatever but you are both changing and she in particular would be going through a lot of changes and this sometimes doesn'tt and for girls it could last until 19 years of age.

    The important thing is how YOU feel! if you feel confident and happy in the relationship then its a good relationship. Hold her hand and tell her you love her no matter what.

    I have been with my partner for 5 years, we fight like cats and dogs but i love the moron and in the end of the day we are best friends again.

    The second you notice that you are unhappy for a long period of time then thats when you should reconsider, until then, enjoy the relationship and have fun!!!

    Source(s): Personal Experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    This is how I used to think about my ex-boyfriend, I loved him to pieces but we never went two weeks without having a row. We were together for over a year. Now that I am out of the relationship I can see that it was never right from the beginning. I have never fought once with my current boyfriend. That doesn't mean that he doesn't do things that annoy me, but we handle it much better. I wouldn't say that just because you argue, the relationship is doomed. You can talk to each other, try to work out why you are arguing, and try to work on it and understand each other more, learn to compromise and admit to your own faults. However, she might just not be right for you. Don't think that you will never find someone else, or someone better than her, because you will, but you won't find them by staying with her.

  • 1 decade ago

    Fighting is an unhealthy part of any relationship, a little bit is okay but If it is becoming every other week then something is wrong. Talk to her and tell her that you don't like the fighting and that you both need to work on it, that it needs to stop.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Talk to her. You will only fight with someone you care about what they say and think. fighting is natural, it is just weird to agree on everything. Tell her you love her, and show her you do to.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    WELL THATS NOT EXACTLY TRUE I LOVE BF BUT I DONT ALWAYS END THE FIGHT.. ASK HER. DOES SHE SHOW YOU LOVE? ASK HER IF SHE TELLS YOU YES THEN THERE YOU GO. FIGHTING NEEDS TO HAPPEN IN A RELATIONSHIP EVERY ONCE N A WHILE OTHERWISE ITS PROLLY JUST A FAKE. IF SHE ARGUES WITH U BUT N THE END U GUYS MAKE UP NO MATTER WHO SAYS WAT AND SHE STILL WANTS TO BE WITH YOU THEN I WOULD SAY YES.

  • Black
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Of course it is a good relationship. You genuinely care. It's hard to find. Don't let go, see where this takes out.

    Answer mine?

  • 1 decade ago

    Why don't you tell her this. Tell her you want to work on this relationship. Figure out why you are fighting.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    who is always the 1 who end the fight ?if she then yes she does

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes..just show her your sincerity..tease her... a good advice from my teacher in Filipino..Do what the girl does not want to do...

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