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Victoria asked in HealthMental Health · 1 decade ago

i keep missing school, please help?

it just started this year that i keep missing school, and it used to be of bad stomach aches. now its from stress and i feel out of it in the morning. i hate 2 of my teachers, but idk if that has anything to do with it. ive missed so much school that i keep promising myself that i wont skip once next week but it always happens. i think its making my parents go crazy cuz my mom yells at me and hits me for it. im hiding in my closet right now cuz im scared she might hit me again...i went to a counsler for this, and i wanted to tell her about my crazy mom but i didnt have the nerve. my mom is ruining my self confedince by always putting me down and my older sister dooes nothing. the only support are my 2 best friends.. my grades are dropping from so much missed school. i cant explain why i dont want to go and my mom says im going to have to repeat 7th grade.. i would rather die than get held back..someone please help if i have some kind of anxiety or stress disorder please help

Update:

also, i only missabout once a week :/

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Go to school!!! Then you won't fail! You won't have to repeat! And your Mum won't throw a fit at you! Do you want to achieve something in your life??? You need to take a deep breath, calm yourself and go to school. Failing and repeating is fair worse then not wanted to be there!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Im not sure what this can be but @ your age I started skipping school...1 day a week for awhile then I skipped a whole 2 weeks....thats how I got caught. I just didnt like school at all....the best advice I can give is to change ( eh, I never changed ) or just make sure your work is done so you can get your grades. Do u know anyone in class? talk to them so that if you do miss days, you won't miss your work. I honestly don't know how I made it thru middle school and highschool cus I was hardly there

  • mysty
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You need to exercise after SCHOOL. If you walk or do ANYTHING physical for an hour or a half hour then you will have a good nights sleep. If you got nasty teachers just keep your mouth shut and do your work. I think smart people tick of teachers that think they know everything. Don't tell anyone when you have the best grades they get mad at you. Next year make sure you like the teachers you get or change your classes.

  • 1 decade ago

    Print this and take it to your counselor, sometimes it is easier to write something down than it is to talk about it. School should be a safe place for you to get away from your mom. Maybe the counselor can get you away from your 2 teachers, that might help. I am sorry you are having a hard time. If your mom hits you, you can report that to children's services but be careful, most foster homes are worse than your real home and older kids sometimes go to detention instead of getting a foster home.

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  • 1 decade ago

    ok first off all you set the alarm everyday

    how old r u

    write ur next birthday wishes so u could calm down for a moment

    think of something good

    and i skip 2 grades and im still keping up in raking 1

    learn at home

    everything will be cool

    like im gonna skip 3 grades

    cause im (not wanna showoff but smart? well everyone tells me that)

    and it will be cool

    bye asker

  • 1 decade ago

    Oh my goodness! You need to let someone know what your mom is doing. This sounds like me except I did this senior year do to depression/anxiety. You need to go to a doctor and explain how you feel they will help you that's what they're there for!:) don't ever let someone treat you like that. What your mom is doing is wrong.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Same thing is going on with me right now I'm absent and I have to speak to mobile crisis I am marking this as interesting and I an a 7 th grader too !

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN. I MISSED A LOT OF DAYS IN THE SEVENT GRADE AS WELL CAUSE OF MY HEALTH (ANOREXIA) TO THE POINT THAT I WAS ABOUT TO REPEAT THE GRADE. WHAT I DID WAS I HAD MY MOM TALK TO THEM AND THEY HELPED ME OUT TO PASS THE CLASS. TELL YOUR MOM ABOUT WHATS GOING ON AND YOUR FEARS. IF YOUR STILL MISSING SCHOOL THEN I SUGGEST TO TAKE HOME STUDIES. NO ANYTHING BUT DROP OUT OR REPEAT A GRADE. I HOPED I HELPED

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you might get truancy court :(

    Source(s): been there done that
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