My friends are being really rude! ?

Wow, the whole gang is up against you? Sorry to her it. I hope you did not use their real names in this site. Are you sure they don't see this site too? (NOT THAT IT WOULDN'T SERVE THEM A GOOD LESSON)!!! :D :D :D You are not the only one who goes through this. There is nothing worse than being compared to a snake. That was cold. Boy, I tell you, I hated my new hair cut when I was in school. I had semi-long hair and my cranky mom had it cut short to a PIXIE BOB and I got it from everyone that I looked like my twin brother!!!!! YUK!!! They way you said it, it sounds like they take you for granted. Do you get to go to their houses, wear their clothes or eat their food? So, on that note, this is ONE of many possible ideas. First, try to get your things back and give them back the things that belong to them. You are now at square one. You don't have to hang out with them for a while. They are being Toxic" to you, and you need some fresh air, (A regular saying by me). Just avoid them after school if you can and take some well deserved time off. Find things you can do by yourself and keep busy. It's not dumping them to the curb, (YET). It is just a break! If they call, don't answer for a while, same with the computer, they will leave messages if they ARE your friends. In school just be kind and friendly as usual. If they ask what is wrong, you can say you haven't been feeling well, it's the truth, they don't make you feel very good right now, do they? (Or, the flip of the coin,tell your closest (and most trusted) friend the truth, only if the time is right and if you are ready to.). Do not let them see you down or depressed as the cattiest of the bunch can start up on you. If you want to put them to the test, you can hold off and wait to see how many of them come to you out of concern. Your true friends will be there for you, right? Then you can let them know how you have been feeling. The real friends will get the message loud and clear and apologize and make amends. The others may scoff, roll their eyes or say something snotty. These are not real friends!!!!! There is nothing wrong with telling them the truth. If they pick on you again, forget them. They are not worth it. Proper manners and class, in a genuine friendship, does not include regular teasing, insults, innuendos, and brow beatings. Everyone gets a little RAZ here and there, no big whoop. You just smile and it goes away in a short time. A constant rain of it is not good. It is contagious when a group is present and the weakest one gets the jabbing. When the catty girls start losing "their real friends", they get the message real quick! I know this is only one suggestion. You have to be strong, walk tall, be confident, confide in your truest and closest comrades, and walk away a winner! (another line I use too dang much, HA HA HA). You seem like the kind who is the truest friend! You are very mature to see this toxic revelation and not participate in the cruelty. You are a strong young woman! You should be very proud of who you are!!!!! If you let it get to you, it may be your defeat. Always stay kind to others even if they don't seem to deserve it. It makes you stand out as a real friend!!!!! Hope this will give you some positive energy! I am rooting for you!!!!! Peace and happiness to you from me!

Your friends do seem rude. I wouldn't even call them your friends. Friends don't treat each other that way. You should talk to them. Tell them how you feel. That you don't like the way they are acting. Hope this helps and good luck :)

in some cases it is better to have no friends than bad ones.. and or make new friends because people change, even you

They're bitches. You can find better people than that to hang out with. I guarantee it.

"You teach people how to treat you."

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."