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Should I stay or should I go?? I need an unbiased opinion about my guy situation from ppl who don't know me!?
We have been together a long time, like 2 1/2 years, i love his family!! and i love him in a sense that i'd do anything for him, care about him! but we don't have a lot in common, Its starting to get old, he's not a very nice guy... we have lots of differences.... i kinda feel like i want to be single, i feel happier on the days i don't see him. but i don't wanna hurt him (he lost his 'v' to me) he's my best friend, I don't wanna lose him or his family!
I recently met this guy who goes to the gym with me, we have lots in common, only thing that bothers me at all about him is he's a little shorter than me, he's 22 and i'm 19. .. uhh.. starting to have feelings for this guy and i know he has feelings for me...
help?!?
I don't feel sexually attracted to my boyfriend anymore, i feel like he's a best friend, and i know if i said i wanted to be friends he wouldn't be very happy about that. i think i'm going to have to either completely end it or stay with him
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Tell or write him this:
love you, but I'm not in love with you.
I want your friendship minus your desire.
I would not lead you falsely or betray you.
I feel the tenderness, but not the fire.
I have no reason for my lack of yearning,
No explanation for what I don't feel,
No other love to whom I might be turning,
No anguish to suggest this isn't real.
Passion is a horse that knows no master,
And I cannot with fences make it stay.
It must run free towards daylight or disaster,
Awake to glory in no other way.
So I must say what you don't want to hear,
But it's a truth that both of us must bear.
Source(s): It has helped me break up with so many guys before and they weren't that mad at me for it - Anonymous1 decade ago
You just said that you have nothing in common with your current boyfriend and you enjoy being without him more then with him. Really, you feel the need to ask people if you should end things with him???
You clearly are not interested in him anymore and it will hurt him much more if you drag it all out. Don't try to be friends with him, he will need space to get over you. To be honest, it sounds like you're already over him and you just haven't told him yet.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Leave him but tell him you still wanna be friends. its obvious you only love him in a best friend way
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