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If a boy said he loved you and then cheated on you would you stay with him or move on?

I was locked up and he says he loves me and that he would never hurt me but then he cheated on me but lied about 3 times and we were together 9 months!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I would move on - he cheated and he lied about it...I think moving on would be better for you

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, it's difficult to say. There's many different sorts of situations with many different answers.

    The short way to put it: if you get the feeling he's really sorry, not just faking, and if he's practically begging to be with you again, then you can start considering geeting back with him. But even then, I would make him sweat. He's seriously indebted to you, so he better respect you and never ever do it again.

    Also, ask the opinion of people closer to you, friends who know him too, they'll be able to give some better advice for they know better what kind of person he is, and I'm sure they want what's best for you.

  • Guys are stupid for 1 but I bet he dose love you and realized he made a mistake. If you and him were doing well in your relationship He probably is just being another high testosterone male that just wanted to have sex really bad. If it was just once that is, because he most likely felt alone and needed some one when you weren't there. That is just my opinion though hope it helps you out.

    Source(s): My knowledge from past experiences :)
  • Tino
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You should have packed your bags the first time. The longer you stay with him the harder its going to be to let him go. Be smart - be fast- move fast and do look back you may turn to stone.

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  • 1 decade ago

    after three times i think its about time you consider leaving. staying with him the first time was even a shock. he didnt deserve to be with you. but i mean if you took him back again. your beginning to make it seem like youll just take him back. i would just see what happens this last time and tell him he needs to change. and make him do it. there isnt a choice.

    Source(s): personal experience.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    it depends! if he didnt mean it and when you ask him this... and he doesnt look in your eyes, then he is a lier!!

    but other than that, get him out your mind and go for the ugly boys! that sounds stupid, but mostly

    all the ugly ones have great personiality and knows how to treat a girl!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    you need to move on from him if he did it 3 times trust me it be more if you stay with him save your self and ditch the loser and move on to bigger and better :)

  • 1 decade ago

    LOL. He's a scrub. Dump his *** and move on. Honey, you could do so much better. Don't underprice yourself.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    All I have to say is...actions speak louder than words

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You're a classic example of how love is blind.

    Pretend you didn't write this question and now read it...

    ...Do you see it?...

    ...Leave him!!

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