He's Confusing Me......?

It means he is sleeping around and only wants to sleep with you. Most guys will tell a girl anything to get in their pants.

Let him know what you want first. Tell him to listen to you. You said he had insecurities right? Then maybe that's one part of it. Tell him that you love him, and that you accept his insecurities. Don't allow him to leave you every single time his mind takes over. He should start speaking by the heart, and not by what he thinks. Sometimes the mind isn't always leading you to the right direction.

If he feels like he's going to hurt you, keep a good eye on him. Don't let your guard down. If you know him well, for example his past relationships. Then think to yourself a little. Don't let yourself get hurt easily. People will make mistakes, and if you really want him and he really wants you. You, both, will have to work for this relationship if you want it to succeed. It takes two to tango.

Hey! I think that he's playing you. Like it sounds like he's kind of trying to manipulate you maybe. Because his actions and what he is saying is making NO sense. I would tell him "hey, do you want to be with me or not, because if you say you don't want to hurt me then obviously we aren't going out, so stop acting as if we are." Also, like you said, it sounds like he is insecure. I wouldn't bother with that guy anymore. Plus, there will be many more guys (who arent confusing and insecure) for you in the future. So don't worry so much, and goodluck .

Why don't you move on to the better opportunities that you will encounter in the future? Tell your ex you are confused enough already and reject his advances, don't hug him, and don't let him kiss you. This should prevent more confusion for you and avoid anymore hurt from your ex?

Maybe he just needs some space. After some few weeks you should ask him if he loves you and if he does then tell him theres no sense in breaking up if you guys mutually feel the same way for each other. In a relationship both ppl have to be there for each other.

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Put up boundaries. Tell him: Either we're going out or not. If we aren't then stop kissing me and hugging me like I'm taken because I am going to be looking for other guys who won't string me along.

sound like he is playing mind games with you.

I do not believe he is looking for a real relationship whatsoever.

When he say " I want to be with you but just do not want ot hurt you"

sound to me like he might cheat on you if you 2 ever get married in the coming future

I think that what he means i can not say for sure. Like wants to be with you but he think he will just look at another girl and cheat on you

But that is just my option

If he really likes you, then why in the world is he worried about hurting you? I love my girlfriend with all my heart, and I love her only no one else.

I do not play mind games at all, I am someone who looks for a serious relationship because married is no game

If he really love you, he needs to prove it if you want him to but i would not give him that chance since he is too picky in my option he is not serious about marriage because I believe he thinks it a game which it is not.

Hope i hope God Bless

It kinda sounds like he wants the best of both worlds here. Just ask him what exactly he means, and if he can't even answer that then maybe all that drama isn't worth it?

Dont be the reboud girl!! a lot of times guys will have one girl that they know that they can always fall back on when they are lonely. If this is him then he is using you. Don't show him that you miss him. Its time to move on :)

prob thinks hes gonna hurt you if it ends badly. or he might think he will be a bad boyfriend. doesnt want to break up with you. def likes you