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I enjoy it also. Alot, actually. I mean, just taking the time to please your significant other. Does she ask you for it? When I was married before, my husband used to come home from work after I too, worked all day, helped kids w/ homework, laundry all that jive....and say "Hey baby, how 'bout a *******?" Seriously? No way! A girl has to be "in the mood". She has to feel loved. Comfortable doing this "deed". Not pressured. I know a woman my age who has never performed on a man, and says she never will. Her boyfriend wants it too. I'm not sure what their fear is. Just try not to put too much on her about it and definately say "Baby, I understand that you're sort of uncomfortable with me talking about it, and I don't want to pressure you in any way, but it would mean a lot to me if you would try it...maybe just a kiss, then a lick...who knows?....Good luck bud!

I suggest you stop giving what you aren't getting. Yes, I enjoy giving and receiving oral. Even if I didn't love it however, I would probably still give it to my husband because it's basically the easiest thing in the world to do sexually.

As long as my fiance is clean I'd see no reason not to give him a bj (unless I was desperate for sex - in that case he'd have to "settle" for that haha!). I actually enjoy doing it for him, and feel that your wife is being lazy. Even if I didn't like it I'd still do it for him.

I don't like to do it because of a past partner got too rough with me when I was doing that. Maybe there is a reason behind her not liking it. Ask her to give you a specific answer why she does not like it.

I love doing it to him more than I like for him to do it to me lol maybe she is just nervous that she isn't doing it right. the first time i did it, i was horrible and i didn't want to do it again. But after that I started having fun with it and when i could tell that he was loving it, i started to love it even more.

you never know...maybe she has an OCD issue about it. you'd be surprised what issues ppl have.

honestly i have OCD and my ocd issues has to do with stray hairs getting in my mouth or wrapped around my finger. it's very random...but that's how ocd is. they are irrational fears.

the thought of geting someone's pubic hair in my mouth just torments my mind. ugh. that's why i prefer my guy to be shaved.

just ask her if there's anything you can do to make it better for her? good luck!

Just keep it clean and fresh and there is some stuff that you can put down there and it won't hurt you and she can eat it. it make's it taste like banana or apple and alot more it's really fun me and my husband love it. good luck

depends on my mood...sometimes I CRAVE it and want it to last a looong time! other times I just do it for him (but try to make it good) .,..or I just tell him I prefer to make love instead. either way-she sounds selfish and lazy!

btw-make sure your neatly trimmed or shaved and freshly showered using some axe bodywash ;)

What are you? 12? Some like it and some don't.

it's uncomfortable. it's not fun. it even hurts. it's nice to see him happy but it's nothing i would ever be begging to do. talk to her about how you're feeling. tell her it would mean a lot to you if you did it more.