Are there any married women out there that have a girlfriend on the side?

I think no matter what your sexual orientation, you give your love to one person. When you marry someone, you pledge your love for them, so keep that pledge and don't go giving little pieces of it to other people.

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Are there any married women out there that have a girlfriend on the side?

I've been happily married now for almost 7 years. I recently came out to my husband that I was bi about three years ago. I have now started coming out to more people because I've been involved with another girl. My husband knows about us and has said to me that as long as he's the...

The question of infidelity is always a hard one. Does it count as cheating if the spouse knows or is it ok. These questions often can bring out heated debate. I have notice several responders said it was fine and used their relationship as an example. Yet with each of them I noticed that both husband and wife are bi and have outside affairs.

This situation does differ from yours thus it is not a good idea to use theirs for comparison. Simply because one is bi sexual does not automatically give them some proverbial ok to engage in activity with multiple partners. If you want to have an open marriage that be honest and have one but don’t fall back on the bi sexual excuse to justify it.

You were married to your husband for 7 years and then felt you needed to come out to him and say you needed sex with a woman besides the relationship you have with him. In actuality what makes this any different than a husband coming forward and telling their spouse that they need to engage in sexual affairs with another woman?

Many may try to say well it is another woman. What difference does that make? They just like you are taking a part of yourself and giving it to another individual. That means whether you like it or not you are not giving yourself completely 100% to the one you stood and made vows with to be faithful forsaking all others. It makes no difference whether that other is the same or different sex they are another.

Your husband may have said it was ok for you to do it; however, you will never really know if he did so simply because he loves you and wants to give you everything he can to make you happy. Or maybe did so because he was afraid that otherwise he would lose you. While you are out making love to another regardless that she is another woman. Your emotions and love will be shared with another rather than him.

Unlike the other couples that commented he will not be out with someone else sharing his love. He will be alone and you can try to fool yourself if you want but the truth is you and your lover will be on his mind. In time you will experience a loss of intimacy between the two of you as each time it eats a little more at his heart. Until the time where someone else comes along and begins to treat him with love and devotion and shows him loyalty like you did back when you first met. He will not say anything to you about it and you will not notice anything because hey you have what you want.

That is up to the time when he finally decides that he will be better off with the woman who is willing to dedicate herself to him completely rather than share you.

I know what I am talking about I have dealt with it firsthand. What you are about to do is a mistake and it will in time take its toll. We are humans we have the ability to control our urges. Just because we desire something does not mean we need to act.

You have your priorities straight then. As long as all three of you are on the same page as to who comes first in your relationships I don't see any problem at all.

My wife and I are both bi. We each have someone of our sex who we see. All of us understand that the spouse comes first. And everybody is just fine with things that way.

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well, it isn't unusual for these things to happen... how would you feel if your husband had feelings for another woman??? do you want to leave him for her??? or would you ask him if she can move in too???

I really dont agree with that. In my opinion thats cheating whether he knows it or not...I just dont feel bi means special privileges. Hes probably hurting but he wants you happy. but im sure there are.

I think your husband did the right thing cause it's your life,you are born with it . You can't deny it, even though he restricts you to be with other girl ,but still he can't totally do that because he has to understand that you are bi ,lucky for him that he is straight.

My wife and I have a very similar set up as you. My wife and I are both bi, and have decided that as long as we come home to each other, and as long as it's the same gender as ourselves it's fine. Don't listen to the people who say it's cheating. Cheating is determined by each couple. My wife and I believe that as long as I'm not with another girl, or she's not with another guy it's not cheating... As long as you and your husband communicate, and respect each other, as well as follow your "rules" I don't think your marriage is at risk.