My best male friend was once my fwb now become a big player, I want him.?

Almost a year ago I met my male friend on a dating sight while I was going through a separation of 11yrs with 2 children, he was devorced with a child ex cheated on him they were together for 6yrs. His older than me by 6yrs.

We were fwb for 6mths till he met chick and we stopped the sex cos he "felt" something for her, I went and got sex else where and we would goss about it (even though he didnt like listening about my stories, sometimes I make up the storeis) but he wouldnt say alot bout this chick.

While that was happening I would still see him every day/night and I have cooked for him many time of the week, he is great with my kids they love him and he loves them as he says I love them as if they are my own. We do everything together camping, pubs to staying home, never got intermit again, cos he says he has too much respect for me even though here and there he still chat about how many kids would you have if find someone cos I know him that well I play on it, when he has sex with someone I am the one who knows everything down to he slept with a friend in our circle, and she know how much I adore him but doesnt know we have had sex before and says we should be together but his a player at the moment, cos his heart has been broken and maybe just to get numbers (that I do know). When we go out with circle of friends and new people we get asked if we are a couple cos we are so close and act the same, we say "no just best mates". When we buy things we go halfs or shout each other stuff use each others cars when go camping share tent but not same room cos he doesnt wont to risk haven sex with me cos he has respect in that way and doesnt want to use me (also kids are sharing same tent), we can sit on the couch and chat how horny we and need to find sex. He is always at my place and even before or after he goes on a date his at my place, we tell each other we love each other I have told him I can see myself with him as a life partner and he said he would like to but too scared will ruin what we have if we get together (where now it is to the point, take things as it comes), he has many times said you guys have to move in with me when house is done. When he hooks up with someone from date sight he shows me photos and rude ones and we giggle about it and I will say yeh she hot you need to f her (even if I dont mean it), When I do what his doing he always picks on the person or some times texts me when on date or when with other male friend he tries to spend time with me when it suits him and most times I fall for it. There have been a couple of times in recent weeks were he would love to shag me but cant, could be cos I have been spending lot of day time with other male friend for home work and other help (this other male friend adores me do anything for me, my friend knows that as we tell each other every thing, but from start there wasnt that spark for me I have known him for 6mths off same dating sight). I have told my friend your a player and his like nothing wrong with that, care factor zero! So when I go out with new guys (not often at all) or 6mth friend his very protective of me, he has even offerd to babysit if I wanna go out with guy, could say heaps more I do alot for him have run around for him, here and there i get a slap on the **** or he mention how hot I look or how ugly I look, times where he tells me to sit take it easy done to much work today he grap dinner, been many of times were we have said its like we are a married couple but with out the sex.

So I was wondering when his finished all his playing around and doesnt find that "special someone" while dating will he be with me? And why is he doing this? am I sitting in his back pocket? Why is he looking for something better after what we have? In a year I have known him he has seen about 15 chicks but hasnt shagged even hlf of them, at work he is adored, his a great player but dont know if he knows how good he is. I am finding it hard not to say no to him, when I want to so he can run after me, cos I know he will, one time I said want to be alone and he kept assisting to come over! In a week I see him 6 nights some times 7, longest i go with out seeing him its 2-3 days but still get a text or phone call I hardly call him. So what do you guys think/ Sorry for being sooo long but had to do best with details. And yep I am his door mat. Thanks hesps for taking the time out.