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Workmates hassleing girl beacuse of me, what should be done next?
My mind is stumped, I dont know where else to ask.
I've been talking to this girl casually for a few weeks now, all seems ok. So 2 days ago I asked her if she wanted to hang out with me one of these days, and she says yes. Anyway, I gave her my work business card and said for her to give me text. No text has been recieved since.
Today I went into her work place for lunch and once again we both started making conversation. Then she mentions that her workmates have been hassling her a little beacuse of me giving her my card, I have a feeling I havent heard from her yet because of that.
My question is, is she embarassed etc? And what should I do now for the 'next step'? I was thinking of just mentioning for her to give me a txt again, or to just see when shes free and go from there. What would be the best way to go about it. Don't want to embarass her anymore than has already done (if shes embarassed that is).
Why would she mention about her work mates hassling her to me?
It seems petty I know, but it's been eating at me for a bit.
2 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
She was probably apologizing for not texting because she was embarrassed. It's a little odd for a guy to give a girl he wants to go out with his business card, so her friends are teasing her and she would be embarrassed to tell them that she texted you. Since you talk to her often, why not ask her for her number? She will probably feel more comfortable with that, and you can start texting her and get to know her a little deeper. Good luck!
- 1 decade ago
Dont focus on it to much as you have only talked casually and she may not have expected you to give her your card. Maybe she was just being friendly to her customers including you? Give her some time to get to know you more, if she doesnt seem as interested in chatting with you as much as she has been, then she is most likely not to be interested. In the meantime if she texts you or flirts with you when you chat she is most likely to be interested. Cant really be sure how big of an impression her workmates have on her thoughts and actions but maybe you know? Im not sure if she means she is not interested when she says her work mates are hassling her but it could be a subtle hint but i think too subtle to be sure. Just be patient i think you will know soon enough. good luck:)
