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I'm have no interest in sex at all and don't care about having it, and teased for it. Help?
I simply have no interest in sex at all. None. Zero. I don't care about having sex with a girl or having a sexual relationship or anything. I find girl's attractive of course, but have no interest in sex at all. I'm straight and not gay.
At school, I am in my senior year, and several people tease me for not caring about sex. Some people call me gay. I'm tired of it.
Is it okay to not have any interest in sex, and I deserve to be teased? Or should I get help from someone to get me interested in sex?
14 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
This sounds like an emotional issue. I am not an expert. It could also be an imbalance hormonally. go to the doctor. Also i don't know how old you are. Maybe you are not ready. I was a late bloomer. My body and hormones did not reach maturity until ,17,18 yrs. old. I had experiences with my high school BF, but did not enjoy it till I was a bit older, been fine ever since. My brother was the same way, i think it is in our genes. Also do not share info. with them. If they are talking about it just agree go along with it. I know most people would not agree with me but H.S and life is hard. Sometimes you need to put up a facade to protect yourself and your privacy. Not with very close ones. All through life, job interviews co-workers etc. you will find it to be in your best interest to keep some things private. Be brave Life is much better after H.S.
- Pauly WLv 71 decade ago
I would just ignore them, but if it becomes a big problem, I would talk with a guidance counselor, and tell him/her about it. There is nothing wrong with not being interested in sex. The other students have no business teasing you because you are a virgin or not being interested in sex. Being a virgin or not interested in sex is a lot better then getting a girl pregnant, and being responsible for the baby etc.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Coming from a sophomore girl, I say "forget them!" To me, you're probably one of the nicest guys around the entire school. Their comments hurt now, but when everyone else finds someone to spend the rest of their life with, they will keep thinking "if only I would've waited." Not having an interest in it is totally fine, and I think it's more mature too. I'm not having sex til I'm married, and that's a personal choice. I just wanna be able to live my life without unnecessary worry! :) keep being yourself :)
- ?Lv 44 years ago
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Don't feel bad Ryan.
I pretended that i was a virgin through the last two years of high school despite friends teasing me about it. I have slept with 6 girls and most of my friends believe its only 2.
Giving a damn what other people think you should do or be is a waste of time and effort
I NEVER look to get laid and neither should you.
Just be you.
- 1 decade ago
Personally, I think that's great. I love it when guys don't act all horny and gross all the time. It's actually a big turnoff for me. I have a couple guy friends who won't talk about girls in demeaning ways like that, and that's obviously a reason why I'm close to them. No one deserves to be teased for that. Don't let anyone tell you how to feel. You'll find a girl who likes you for you, and when you do find a sweet girl, the people who made fun of you, will be jealous. Good luck(:
Answer mine anyone?
- ?Lv 51 decade ago
I think you're overreacting. Its obvious that there is nothing wrong with you for having your priorities straight. You don't care for sex. Thats just like me and how I don't care for soccer. I'm sure thats something about me that has absolutely no effect on you so, why should you care? Its my life and I can live it the way I want to just like you should. Nobody can judge you for being you and if they do then they're immature and need to learn how to act like adults already.
- 1 decade ago
You have my praise for your interest lays in a different maybe even better part of the world (intellectual part perhaps?) And it is perfectly normal to not think of sex and all. You may find joy in other things. You don't have to apply what people think of you to your life. Just be who you are, those accept that are your true friends, those who dont are not worthy of you.
- 1 decade ago
Kids these days are so cruel.. everyone thinks sex is so cool and everyone doing it, so yhu should to.. No! yhu have a right to make yo own decisions.. i think it is wonderful that yhu don't care.. focus on school..! you're doing the right thing..! i admire yhu.. wait til marriage.. trust me, more fun then.. becuz its with someone yhu truely love..! ♥
Source(s): experience - 1 decade ago
wow i can't believe people are teasing you for that. i really admire that you have no interest in it and so would a lot of other people. just keep being yourself and don't let anyone else change your mind