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i slept with one of my bestfriends.. bestfriend! and now she hates me!?

ive apologised time after time, and she dont wanna hear it! it makes me feel so bad, and i just cant deal with it. im so depressed everyday and nothings changing it! dont know what to do.

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and she told everyone at my school so now everyone thinks im something im not and wont let it go, so now i feel like **** everyday, and dont know what to do!

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    She doesn't hate you she's so jealous she can't see straight long enough to rationalize that she is being stupid. I would be mad at her for acting like a jerk and ruining your all's relationship over something so dumb.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I did the same thing, we slept togeth for a few months. Its hard, and the best way is to give each other space and DONT constantly apologize.

    Unfortunately its very hard to remain friends, best chance is to try your best to avoid having feelings and just give each other some space. If you guys have any chance of keeping the relationship the time apart will make you realize how much you miss each others friendship. Be honest, tell her that its unfortunate that it happened but it did and that you would really like to save the friendship.

  • Jarrod
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    She has a reason to feel that way, I would be furious. Give her the time to cool down though, then try it again.

  • 1 decade ago

    She jealous...she has no reason to be upset....you and her friend can do whatever yall want she is not running your life, you are.

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