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How to let my best guy friend now i like him (10 points)?
so we are both 15 years old. he is like my best guy friend we always talk and text, he listens to me and he is sooo sweet and hes funny he can always make me laugh, hes like my big teddy bear but i wouldnt want to go out with him because i always saw as like a brother to me and i didnt want to ruin that. anyway everyday i go to tennis practice and he goes to baseball practice. we both end practice at the same time so we normally wait in the front of school and talk till our parents pick us up. yesterday both of our parents said they were going to be late so we probably waited 2 hours outside(we would have waited in the school but the doors were locked) it was getting cold so i told him i was getting cold.(im a small petite girl so i normally get cold easy) he said he was feeling pretty warm (hes a chubby guy so i can see how he was warm ;). he asked if he wanted to keep me warm so i said yes so he held me around his big arms and i guess we started snuggling and cuddling. he was sooo warm, soft, and cuddly i didnt want it to end i felt like snuggling with him all day .ever since then i couldnt look at him the same way. i have like a crush on him now.
what im asking is
why do i have a crush on him now? i cant really explain why i have these feelings for him now
and what are some ways i can get him to know i like him without making things weird between us?
12 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Most guys don't spend that much time with a girl unless they have some feelings for them. And him wanting to keep you warm and snuggle is VERY flirty. Somehow let him know how you feel, but don''t be too upfront about it. Maybe when you're texting ask him who he likes, maybe you'll be surprised.
I had this same situation happen to me when I was 14 (I'm 16 now)
I developed a crush on my best guy friend, who I'd known since I was four. One day we went to the movies with a few other friends and he was flirting a lot and we ended up holding hands that night. We dated for a year after that. And after we broke up there were no hard feelings. We are now both dating other people, but he continues to be one of my best guy friends and things aren't awkward at all.
So my point is, just GO FOR IT! If he truly is your friend it won't make things awkward.
- 1 decade ago
1.Give a few hints. Blow a kiss at him when you see him, talk to him as much as you can, look good when you walk by him, if he looks at you in class then he probably likes you back.
2.Look at his friends. If he is with his friends and they are all looking at you then that means his friends like you too. Go for it he probably likes you. His friends might be jealous that he has you.
3.Tell him. If you don't think he likes you then just build up the confidence and tell him, if you are scared like many others, don't worry. The worst thing he could do is say, no. Its not that big of a deal.
4.Tell a friend if you're scared. If you don't feel confident then tell a friend. Unless your friend is his cousin. They'll freak out and think your weird. If that's the case just don't tell them and go on ahead and ask him.
5.Wait. If he has a girlfriend then you can't go out with him so you will just have to see what happens.
6.Get to know him better. Maybe if he becomes your friend, he might notice who you really are.
7.Don't tell other people that you want to go out with him. Some people are loud and they might just say it accidentally and make him embarrassed, and say something that he thinks will change the subject.
8.If he does not feel the same away about you and start teasing you and making you embarrassed because of the way he feels then it wasn't ment to be.
9.He may think that he can run over you because you have a crush on him and wants him to like you. Do not let him do that. Stand up for yourself. Make him think your not interested. Don't look at him, stop laughing at his jokes, and talk to his friends not his. Also look extra pretty and pretend you don't know he is around. Look your best and when he says hi just say hey back and keep on walking.
10.Feel confident. Do not chew on your nails. Keep your head and chin up. Smile sweetly with your friends when he looks at you with out making contact. Show him that you're not boy crazy even if you are and he will definitely like you for that.
11.When you catch him looking flip your hair, bite your lip, or even simply wave.
Hope It Helped!
Source(s): I Know It's a lot but that's because I Know about This Stuff :) - Anonymous1 decade ago
why do i have a crush on him now? = "he held me around his big arms and i guess we started snuggling and cuddling. he was sooo warm, soft, and cuddly i didnt want it to end i felt like snuggling with him all day".
Well you answered that question yourself. Obviously, because that incident happened...
And for the second question, just tell him you like him, and see if the feelings are mutual? It's going to be an akward transition no matter how you do it. No point in beating around the bush.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
As a guy I can guarantee he liked the cuddling as much as you did. You should just be honest with him and tell him you really like being around him and ask him to a movie or or something. Dont heavy hand the topic of bf/gf just let it come naturally. While out with him just try holding his hand. When he does something nice like holding you to keep you warm then kiss him on the cheek and tell him how nice it is.
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- 1 decade ago
When you hug someone for more the 20 seconds it makes you trust someone more (I learned that on the Tyra show) so you are probably just feeling a lot of trust towards him. But ya, so you probably just have more trust or you are physically attracted to him.. And I would say DONT tell him you like him straight up. But just flirt with him so he can get the hint you like him and then if he says he likes you then tell him the truth. But never tell a guy you like him unless he likes you first... Like, if you tell him first it will put him in total control. And he'll have the choice to go for you. Or not. And that isn't good. It should be he likes you and you have the choice of to go for him or not. So ya.. Good luck :-D
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Seeing as your relationship was already so close, it's normal for you to like him now after that happened. It's hard to explain how these feelings emerge or where they came from, but it just happens, whether you want it to or not.
If you wanna let him know how you feel, just have one of your/his friends tell him. He'll think that you don't know he knows, and maybe he'll bring it up in conversation. That way he's more likely to admit whether he feels the same way. If he doesn't feel the same way, just let him know that you still want to be friends.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
girls fall easily, that's a fact. since you two are spending too much time together, share the same interests i bet, and he make you feels comfortable that explains why you like him. a lot of people fall for their best buddies, that's normal.
how do you get him to know you like him? well in any way it will be really weird. hehe. but just act naturally but be more and extra sweet. he'll figure it out. ^__^
goodluck dear!
- ?Lv 45 years ago
enable me in simple terms inform you this-you're making issues wierd via warding off him! He needless to say likes you too and he probably feels an analogous way approximately apporaching you. i think of you ought to easily flow up and tell him. Dont be afraid, by using fact he does such as you. each thing you have written seems to coach it, till you ignored out a extensive element.
- lilahLv 41 decade ago
it's normal, and won't go away with age. I'm 19 and in love with my best guy friend. I think you should just tell him. Just say "what do you think of us going out as more than just friends". That's my plan at least! good luck!
- 1 decade ago
if your in class and hes across the room, stare at him, and when he looks look away shly, compliment whether its on his appearance or on his talents, and just always smile when your around him, and to be honest since he asked you if you wanted to cuddle its pretty obvious that he likes you too :)
Source(s): personal experience