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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

this girl acts strange around me, why is it? im trying to be friendly..?

she likes to say hi and greet me.. brings up michael jackson coz we both like him.. then when I started greeting her too it was all smile and stuff, very playful around me. THEN.. me and my friend added her on facebook, we didnt get a response after a month. My friend got added, and I got my request deleted. Now whenever I see her, its very awkward.

its like this.. we meet and then she goes before i can even say anything 'oh hi' then when I told her I saw her at church. .she was like 'yeah i know, i saw you too' in a fast manner.

why is she being like this.. I just wanna be a friend to her coz i think she's cool, but ever since I added her on fb, things got awkward and seem like shes afraid/nervous/cautious/scared around me.

Update:

well ive seen some of her FB coz obviously my friend showed it to me.. and I can tell she posts some of her thoughts there and that shes shy of the camera covering her face in alot of pictures.

thoughts like.. 'sometimes this this this is that that that'

Update 2:

should i ever bring up why she didnt add me on Fb? and added my friend?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I agree with RX girl. However, she might be kind of shy, and not ready to chat on fb since she only says hi to you, not having a full conversation. Maybe she has a small crush on you, and is shy and not quite ready yet. Try to get to know her, and find out if anyone has said anything about you, such as someone you don't get on with, check out their fb, and see if they've done anything in the form of a comment. Try talking to her, saying you want to be friends.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe she saw something on your facebook that turned her off? Maybe someone said something about you to her? It could be anything.

    People are weird and sometimes they overlook/overanalyze certain things when they shouldn't. It sounds like she is being a little fickle.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

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